It's a regular in-laws story..My marriage is 9 years old now..After one year of marriage we shifted from in-laws place to some other city..reasons were understandable to my husband as he had seen her granny and mom's nonco-operative behaviour,My brother in law hardly ever contacted or talked to us and viceversa and My husband gave me to understand that he was always a neglected child from his mother"s view as compared to his younger bro....My father in law is a gem but a usual henpecked husband.He loves us but is helpless.Now my brother -in-law is getting married and we now receive calls from them to help financially.I can go so on and so forth...and some how I don't wish to attend his wedding but my hsband has bcome suddenly generous and wants to gift gold etc to them.He feels its his younger brother after all.Well please suggest how to come out of this situation?I am very disturbed and restless.We both work.If tell hubby there will definately be a fuss and I want to avoid that.HELP!
2006-11-03 16:41:45 · 7 answers · asked by YES,Icare 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
it is your husband's brother. there is a deeper connection that you can't understand. however, i do understand your reasoning & stance on this situation. what i suggest is discussing the situation rationally & without anger. if he still really feels stongly in helping his brother in such a way, then you need to respect his feelings & support him. try not to make it into a HUGE deal because it will only hurt your relationship with your husband and his relationship with his brother.
2006-11-03 16:46:20 · answer #1 · answered by christy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is an eternal in law problem all over the World. However, I would suggest that you let your hisband do what he wants to as it is after all his brother. You shud show your magnaimity (I know it is difficult !!!!) and attend the marriage. This will show the bigness of your heart and MAYBE it will change the opinions of your in laws.
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2016-10-03 06:28:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him about it. tell him how you feel and make a decision about the money situation. see how much you can afford to give or pay towards the wedding. you are a team and must make decisions together.
2006-11-03 17:02:23 · answer #4 · answered by babyvoice69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what you can without going overboard go to the wedding and be happy you dont have to see them everyday when its over
2006-11-03 16:51:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's his family. Stay out of it. He can help them if he wants too. It's not your business.
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2006-11-03 16:42:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋