I am Kinda Big, but I want a nice, funny, sweet boyfriend. But all the guys I either have a Girlfriend or they just say no when I ask them to Be my Boyfriend. I think it's because i am Big. What should I do. And I like this boy that does'nt like me back what should I do about that too? I really wish this guy would be my Boyfriend!!!!!!!! :)
2006-11-03 16:37:25 · 18 answers · asked by Crazy Banana!!!! :) 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
not all guys like big girls and that's a reality. if you are ok with it, then fine. if not, try a diet if that makes you feel better about yourself!
2006-11-03 16:38:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have known some big girls who I looked at and thought, "wow, if she lost some weight she would be a great girl to date not just be friends with." So, as a guy, I can answer your question honestly. You might not like the answer, so please forgive me if I upset you.
Most men are simply not attracted to a larger body girl. Most guys like skinny girls. If you want more details (question asker only please) feel free to email me. I don't want to offend anyone so I won't go into details here.
What can you do?
First, start with a visit to your doctor. Talk with your doctor about your weight and see if you are within a healthy range. Follow your doctor's suggestions about having a proper, nutritious diet and exercise plan. If you feel that you are overweight, you should not just start your own diet and exercise plan because you could have some problems that need to be addressed.
Then really follow your doctor's suggestions without fail as much as you can. Drink plenty of water and get rest. Try to take notice of your accomplishments.
Things to Avoid:
Fad diets
Negative stress
Over-eating
Unhealthy snacks
Negative people (they bring you down)
Thinking poorly about yourself
Once you get your body looking healthy through proper diet and exercise, you should feel a lot better about yourself and others will notice.
Also, if you don't want to lose weight.... there are a lot of nice, funny, sweet chubby men who will be happy to have a nice, funny, sweet, chubby gal. But fit men or even most chubby men do NOT want a chubby girl.
Good luck. You can do it!!!
2006-11-04 01:15:44 · answer #2 · answered by Roger S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no good answer to your question .. you sound like a great , attractive, kind, fun person who has wit and intelligence..
Here is the truth of relationships: People like being with people that make them happy, or make them laugh.. If you don't let the people get you down who may not like you because of any one reason, size, or whatever,, if you don't let them get you down, and you keep putting yourself out there as a fun person, you will find someone who will really like you a lot.. It may not be immediately, so just remember that you can't make anyone want to be with you.. But you can be nice, and pleasant, and smell nice and be clean and look nice and most of all have interests.. If you love music for example, and play music, you'll find yourself around others who love music, and one of those will like you, because you like the same things.. But it could be cooking, or science, or dancing, or golf or history.. anything.. join a club, and go there regularly and you'll find someone.. But be patient.. and I think you're going to find someone who loves you a lot.
2006-11-04 23:15:27 · answer #3 · answered by Golfcarmel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First don't ask any man to be your boyfriend. you sound like you may be kinda young. Just wait and enjoy your self. Guys do like ladies that are big and have some curve to them but they usually do not realize that until they are in their late teens or maybe even until they get to college. Just wait and be patient. always keep yourself looking nice and always be pleasant. I would tell all ladies that advice. No one wants to date any girl who is tattered looking or smelly, no matter how much they weigh. good luck!
2006-11-04 00:45:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to say, I just answered a similar post stating that if I'm not overweight then I am more attracted to a girl who is not overweight, this is an honest answer so take it for what it is. I bet there are some really good, funny Big guys that you don't ask out, why is that? are you not attracted to them? then ask why aren't I (you) attracted to big men? answer it honestly and it may answer this yahoo Question you posted
2006-11-04 00:43:10 · answer #5 · answered by mohvictor 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
most guys r intimidated by "big girls" and dont feel comfortable around them. about the boyfriend thing, it seems like ur showing him exactly how u feel and some guys r intimidated by that too. a lot of guys r just weird and none of them think the same so its kinda hard telling u what to do
2006-11-04 00:43:17 · answer #6 · answered by Dennis 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Some men just dont like bigger girls, some men do. Unfortunately younger guys are more influenced by looks. You can not force them to like you. No matter what your size, always try to look your best and be yourself. Eventually you will find someone who loves you for who you are.
2006-11-04 00:41:22 · answer #7 · answered by fancyname 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't force anyone to like you back. Not all men like "big girls". But there are some men that do. You just need to find someone that loves you for you.
2006-11-04 00:39:48 · answer #8 · answered by cutebastardette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys do like bigger girls.. you just have to look in the right places.. about the guy you like.. if you arent happy with yourself no one else will be so accept that hes not into you and move on.. take a deep look into yourself and draw that confidence out.. guys cant resist confidence because its a rare trait to find.
2006-11-04 00:42:53 · answer #9 · answered by pinkcandiez871 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just nature. Men like healthy women, and large women are generally not healthy.
Drink lots of water. Exercise. Eat healthy. You probably won't get skinny, but you CAN get healthy. Don't do it to get a guy though. Do it for you.
2006-11-04 00:42:51 · answer #10 · answered by SmartAlex 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋