How do you tell a guy when he has gone far enough and you aren't comfortable when he does certain things?...
2006-11-03 16:00:29 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just say..."I know you wouldn't want me to do things that make me feel uncomfortable and possibly make me feel differently about you...I am not comfortable doing that.." then don't let him talk you into anything against your will...don't ever let anyone change how you feel about yourself
2006-11-03 16:05:02 · answer #1 · answered by .*^+Holly+^*. 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you say no, it means no. If he goes further than what you want, then he has violated your right as a human, and this must be brought to the police. As for you, do not put yourself in the position in where he will want to go further. You are not only jeopardizing your life, you are jeopardizing his life.Break up and move to some one that wants what you want, not more or less. Let him find out the hard way from someone else.
2006-11-04 00:06:32 · answer #2 · answered by meonhere 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him straight out. Dont let him go so far that you are uncomfortable. If he cares about you he will understand and slow down. If he gets upset then he isnt worth your time. Good luck and stay strong stand firm on your values and dont let anyone push you into something you dont want to do. Believe it or not it is still COOL to say no.
2006-11-04 00:06:29 · answer #3 · answered by brookesingsalways 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess this depends on your personality.
I am very out spoken and when I don't like something I will speak my mind. That can be more difficult for others.
Be assertive. Don't be embarrassed...he is doing something to make you uncomfortable! If he doesn't like it...Tough! Just make sure you stand your ground and don't let him make you feel that way. If he continues....get rid of him!
If you are shy...maybe your best bet would be to give him the cold shoulder.
Whatever you do, don't let him make you feel uncomfortable at all! You deserve respect! If he can't give it to you....move on!
2006-11-04 00:09:58 · answer #4 · answered by Ron's wife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him exactly what you told me that you arnt comfortable when he does ______ and that he has gone far enough because if he doesnt listen to you or gets mad at you when you say that then he doesnt deserve you or anyone else for that matter
2006-11-04 00:04:06 · answer #5 · answered by KodyCuddleBiscuit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flat out tell him. Make it very plain and don't mince words. When you say stop or enough that's that. If he doesn't respect that get away from him and stay away from him.
2006-11-04 00:07:25 · answer #6 · answered by CuervoBMed 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him straight out. If he doesn't comply, kick his a$$ to the curb. If the stuff he does makes you feel uncomfortable, he needs to change, or you need to move on.
2006-11-04 00:03:11 · answer #7 · answered by viva_bamm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say im not ready to take this step yet if hes a decent boy he'll stick around nd if he doesn't ur be glad u didn't give up da goodies
2006-11-04 00:04:09 · answer #8 · answered by hunni_b21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im 42 so trust me be honest with yourself first and tell him the truth of how you feel. you may hurt no matter what but youll hurt less with the truth.
2006-11-04 00:06:32 · answer #9 · answered by junior 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best way is to either give him the finger or sit and hav a long talk
2006-11-04 00:06:18 · answer #10 · answered by BUCK$ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋