ok i am soo curious of when like guys give me the looks like they are intersted and then not do anything! Why are guys so afraid to aproach girls? seriously if your shy and shes looking likeshes interested most likely she is! has this ever happened to you girls? or guys why do you do it? and why dont you confront us only a couple of guys have actually like had the guts to come talk to me that i didnt know...im in highschool if it helps. i know your afradi of rejection but you'll never know if you dont let us know...
2006-11-03 15:55:11 · 8 answers · asked by ugly truth 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
guys are dumb and we need a girl to hit us with a brick and tell us what we want
2006-11-03 15:58:25 · answer #1 · answered by don b 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most guys have alot of trouble picking up signs from girls especially in high school. I'm 25 and I still have trouble with this type of thing from time to time. When your younger you tend to have less confidence and more of a fear of rejection so that is why this happens to you with guys. Most guys eventually reach a point where they start trusting their gut a little more and they won't shy away so much from approaching, but unfortunately for most of us that doesn't happen until after high school.
Don't be afraid to make some moves yourself, it is 2006 afterall.
2006-11-04 00:03:34 · answer #2 · answered by acvader 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like the book says, "If he doesn't ask you out, he's just not that into you." I had a hard time believeing this at first but then later, I finally got it.
Besides, you want to go out with a guy who is confident. Not some coward.
2006-11-04 00:00:46 · answer #3 · answered by pureessence 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's true many guys are afraid to approach girls, it's becasue most guys arent confident and think that the girl is going to turn them down. Believe me, that's from experience.
2006-11-04 00:03:26 · answer #4 · answered by danny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a lot of guys have gotten "shot down" cruelly by women and are more afraid than they should be.
remember the universal sign- SMILE at a guy you want to talk to, this let's him know you are interested and gives him a reason to talk himself out of his fear.
2006-11-03 23:59:40 · answer #5 · answered by R J 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sometimes i do it because i'm waiting for the signal...lets say if u let me know that you're interested i'd make a move but if u give me NO signal...then y would i aproach you?
2006-11-03 23:59:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES! I totally agree. Recently I have had several of my guy friends say their friends are interested in me yet they don't say anything! WHY?!!
AHH guys are so confusing!!!
2006-11-03 23:57:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is why I had only one girlfriend in high school.Lack of confidence!
2006-11-03 23:58:31 · answer #8 · answered by gibbyguys 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋