Tomorrow night I have a date with a guy who I think I could really like. The problem is that at 32 and divorced, I lack self-confidence. I feel inadequate and I usually sabotage the date without even realizing it. Then I wonder why the guy didn't call again. I am very successful with my career and I'm reasonably attractive, although slightly (15 lbs) overweight. I just don't know how to act. What should I be doing differently? Why am I always the one being rejected? Help!!!!!!!! Why does this keep happening to me? Any suggestions?
2006-11-03 15:52:46 · 5 answers · asked by Emmamart 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Seems to me like you already know what the problem is. So in the end its up to you to decide you're worthy of someones time and affection.
Or...maybe you aren't as ready to date as you think you are and you need some you time. Either way, I hope it works out for you.
2006-11-03 16:00:01 · answer #1 · answered by Suni J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your probably overthinking things and trying too hard. Just relax and be yourself. Be happy with who you are and realize that if someone doesn't like you for who you are then they wouldn't be good for you anyway.
You might be trying too hard to be the person you think the guys will like instead of just being yourself. Again just relax and be yourself. Good luck!
2006-11-03 23:57:58 · answer #2 · answered by acvader 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
JUST BE YOURSELF & be confident! 15 pounds over weight! haha... that is NOTHING! girlie, get yourself together!!! if this guy doesn't DIG who you are, then he isn't the one anyhow!
perhaps guys sense that you feel poorly about yourself. guys really want a confident, but not arrogant woman.
you really have to love yourself for who you are.
2006-11-03 23:57:50 · answer #3 · answered by christy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ders nottin rong wit u.u jus need 2 chill out and let wateva it iz *** 2 u.and aint nottin rong wit bein 15 lbs ova weight thick is in .but jus try 2 be confident and luv urself no matter wat make ur self feel gud ,u need no man 2 make u feel gud bout yo self.but gud luck!!
2006-11-03 23:59:38 · answer #4 · answered by Redd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell me how u sabatoage dates. issit u keep listening to company calls while on a date? if thats true, thats a MEGA BIG TURN OFF.
2006-11-04 00:07:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋