(m/14) So, I've been single for about two years now, and I have been in high school for about 3 months. Anyhow, I've looked at a couple girls and came pretty close to going out with this one girl. I realized there's a girl who I'd really like to go out with, shes really pretty and really nice. I think she might know that I like her, but I'm not sure. I have a few questions, you can answer one of them or all all of them, any help is great.
1. How do I let her know I like her in a mature way? (NOT telling my friends to tell her, no e-communication, etc.)
2. How do I take things from here?
3. What are great hanging out ideas one-on-one that aren't to inimidating? (If you say miniture golf I will shoot you in the gonads.)
2006-11-03 15:51:52 · 7 answers · asked by kant 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1. just ask her on a date
2. things will go from there naturally
3. go out with your friends together or on a group date
2006-11-03 15:53:59 · answer #1 · answered by christy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Miniture golf. Just kidding. First, if you want a mature way, pull her aside and just let her know. Tell her your attracted to her personality and you want to know her better. Then ask her if she'd want to hang out with you sometime. You don't need to go one on one right away... that can be a little scary for first time daters. Get a group of friends together for movies or your favorite hang out spot and invite her to go with you. It's less intimidating and you don't have to worry about those awkward silences. You'll both get to know eachother better and then you can move on to the more one on one dates. For those, take her to a place she likes. If she just likes to hang out by the lake, or watch movies at your house, or dinner... doesn't matter what, just do what she likes.
2006-11-03 23:59:06 · answer #2 · answered by visionssofaraway 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) Just tell her and see how she responds. You should know if there is a chance.
2) Just ask her out on a date or see if she wants to do something on the weekend.
3) Have either a couple people over to your house and invite her or have one of your friends do the same (has to be in both of your circle of friends) and just see how things go from there.
2006-11-03 23:59:13 · answer #3 · answered by ugly truth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is she already friendly back, in a casual way? if so it is easier. If not, just go up to her, smile and ask her if she might like to go out sometime, or talk on the phone. Give two choices, so she can't really say yes or no too fast.
If she says maybe, say okay and maybe ask in a day or two. If you can find out what she likes, maybe movies or biking, or anything... you can lead off with that too.
2006-11-04 00:00:10 · answer #4 · answered by Charles-CeeJay_UK_ USA/CheekyLad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess ask her out for some burger and tell her you HAVE to tell her something. thats too obvious when you say 'i have something important that i want to tell you'. that already suspense the situations, she knows its coming.
what to do is up to how much you like her. if you know her, you should where to take her. thats all the same for what to get her where to go with her. not every girl loves rollercoasters, movies, walks on beach. every single one out there is special. treat them differently, well special good luck.young love.
2006-11-04 00:01:25 · answer #5 · answered by funky_homosapien 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well for one, if you want to be mature about it then go up and speak to her
find a common interest and chose that as a date ..
maybe go out for pizza (everyone has to eat)
but find something that interest you both
2006-11-03 23:55:16 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ Lisa♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1.) ask her out in person
2.) go out with her
3.) go to the movies, or if you wanna talk with her ask her out to lunch on a weekend or something
2006-11-04 00:04:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋