My bf has a pool and we all were gonna go swimming, but my friend was like don't go. So I was like why and she was like, you in a bikini will turn him on and he will rape you or something. Is this true? Cuz he sees me all the time @ gymnastics and stuff. Plus it's not like i am reall skinny. I am 5'2 and 91lbs. What would you guys do??
I am not 12 or anything like that, Im just a high school gymnast and dancer.
I have slept with him but she thinks he is hott. Is she jealous??
I am not skinny!! I have to loose 6lbs for my next meet. She soen't trust her bf @ all so I think she is jealous. What would you guys do if I were ur gf??
2006-11-03 15:50:51 · 12 answers · asked by Amania 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Would you rape your gf?? or is my friend paranoid??
2006-11-03 15:52:46 · update #1
I eat all the time but i have a high metabolism and do about 6hours a day of gymnastics so it kinda burns off.
2006-11-03 15:55:58 · update #2
She thinks if I don't have sex with him again today then he will be pissed and rape me but she has never met him. only seen pics.
2006-11-03 15:58:15 · update #3
I am 15. I just cannot gain weight at all. He's a year older.
2006-11-03 16:00:05 · update #4
Take you out to eat.
2006-11-03 15:53:36 · answer #1 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it is great if she is really looking out for you, find out some background information on this guy just in case, you cannot be too careful. You don't want to take a risk like that. Just don't drink and make sure there are plenty of people around that you trust and nothing should happen. Maybe she just does not want you around him because she likes him too. Who knows? But he is your boyfriend, so you should trust him anyways.
And about that skinny stuff. You ARE too skinny. Hun, I was a gymnast too, and right now I am your height, and I sure don't weigh that much and no you don't have to loose 6 pounds, don't fool yourself. Gymnasts need MUSCLE. Muscle weighs more than fat, and I doubt that those 91 pounds, soon to be 85 pounds, is all muscle. You ARE skinny, and you need to put on, not a lot, but just a little bit of weight before it becomes a serious problem, though, in my book. that's a BIG problem. If its a metabolism problem, there are ways to make you eat and gain weight, you need to seek help. If you get a nutritionist they can help you.
Good luck and have fun if you decide to go swimming.
2006-11-04 00:01:42 · answer #2 · answered by Norah 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
WHAT???
Your friend has some serious issues. As her friend you really need to tell her that she needs to seriously seek professional help.
You've had sex with him already? Why would he rape you?
You are an athlete right? You are not skinny.
As for me? If I were him? I would soo totally... uh... no, I can't even joke about it. I'd just be friendly. I might take a peek or two. Maybe since you were intimate (at least) once he might put the moves on you (starting with playful wrestling and hugging and kissing) but it's a rare creep who would force his girlfriend into anything. Will you be alone with him?
2006-11-04 00:02:05 · answer #3 · answered by SmartAlex 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You said you have already slept with him? So what is the problem? You guys have already done the deed.......why would he need to rape you? Go swimming with him and stop listening to this friend. In fact.......to all girls: stop listening to your friends. You have your own agenda and they have theirs. Have fun. If you don't trust him already, why did you sleep with him? Think about it. Do you know him? Does your friend?
2006-11-03 23:59:37 · answer #4 · answered by Micah D 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
NOT SKINNY???? wtf!!! you need help for that, forget your friend saying that your bf will rape you(which if he respects you he wont)..... but your 91lbs and in high school?? you wouldnt even be able to give blood if you wanted(And if you are 17) because you have to be 110lbs.... gain weight, dont lose any... its not healthy!!
dont mean to be harsh, but theres some kind of problem there...
2006-11-03 23:57:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds like HS BS. A bathing suit does not cause rape, and you can Tell her not to worry, if he even tried, he would find out about rape first hand in prison.
2006-11-03 23:54:42 · answer #6 · answered by Common Sense 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Gymnasts rock! You sound hot.
2006-11-04 01:22:08 · answer #7 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK your going swimming with friends and he has already had you so i don't think he is gonna jump in and attack you. Your friend is jealous and insecure, and also wants your dude!
2006-11-03 23:56:24 · answer #8 · answered by don b 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ur friend's crazy... why would he rape you? i meen if he's done it with you then what's the point of raping. I MEEN YOU'RE HIS GIRLFRIEND! if he loves you there's not a chance of rape.
2006-11-04 00:08:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that she is jealous...... and by the way, don't listen to your friend..... go with what your heart says.... If your heart says go, then go, if not, then don't go.
HOW IRONIC!!!!!!!
2006-11-03 23:58:37 · answer #10 · answered by Britni's Boy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋