this guy he asked me out!! and he is 19 and i and i am 14!!
is that a problem or not
he is really fine!!!
and also he wants to pick me up by his car
should i just go or not please telllllllllllllll meeeeeeeeee!!!!
:-(
2006-11-03 15:46:01 · 28 answers · asked by Blah_123 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
um no your way to young for him right now wait til your 18. if anything happens to you now with him then hes responsible for it. And then think would you parents be ok with it to if you went out with him. I don't think they would be pleased to hear that.
2006-11-03 15:50:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry, but a 19 year old guy should not be dating a 14 year old girl. What do your parents think about this? If I was you I would pass on dating this guy and wait until you are a couple years older to date. Or date some one your own age. I am pretty sure a 19 year old guy is probably looking for one thing from a 14 year old girl. And if you don't know what it is. You are really not ready to date. My daughter is 10. But if she was 14 and wanted to go out with a 19 year old guy. I would give her a big (NO I DON'T THINK SO!
2006-11-03 23:50:57 · answer #2 · answered by Kali_girl825 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I would say to forget about it. My guess is there is one thing on this guys mind. That may not be the case and you may want that anyway, but either way it's not the best idea. The way I look at it, it's ok to be 22 and hook up with somebody 27. It's when you go lower that it becomes a problem. 21 going out with 17 is wrong, as is 19 vs 14. See my point? There's just something not right about it. The maturity level is totally different.
2006-11-03 23:49:31 · answer #3 · answered by ryangiggs 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be carefull baby! I started off really young like you too,then I got pregnate at 16.Im now 23 with three daughters and they drive me insane sometimes,but I love them with all my heart.Just keep talking to him for a week or so , so you can get to know him a little better and are able to actually trust what kind of guy he really is .Does he want to be with you for good intentions or to do something naughty with you?Think about all your options first .And yeah it is a problem on the fact that he is an adult now and your only 14.
2006-11-04 00:00:28 · answer #4 · answered by ~*meli$sa*~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not go. He is way too old for you and probably only wants you for one thing. I'm sure you are very attractive to get a 19 year old's attention.......but there is something very wrong with this guy if he wants to go out with a 14 year old and he is 19! It's just wrong. Don't do it. Stick to guys your own age. This 19 year old will only try to get you to do something that you don't want to do.
2006-11-03 23:52:02 · answer #5 · answered by Micah D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont. you need to grow up before you make a desicion. your a lil kid. 5 years aint a lot but while your in school it is. if your gonna date some older than you by that much wait till your out of school when guys who are that much older arent just lookin for a realy tight pu$$y on a young face with perky t!ts. and you shoulndt chose him by just looks. you have a lot of growing up to do. date a 14 or 15 year old. otherwise you will end up being pregnant singal and a freshman and he will be no where to be found.
2006-11-03 23:52:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you are 14 and he is 19, you know how many years in jail that boy will spend. If you really like him tell him that you are too young and that maybe when you are older and he is still around then maybe, till then it ain't happening. Do you really want him to go to prision?
2006-11-03 23:50:57 · answer #7 · answered by jessicaball2003 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say no because i can really think of one reason why this guy would want to go out with someone that's 14.
I know it sounds to good to be true but i would advise against it.
2006-11-03 23:50:33 · answer #8 · answered by Slim504 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. You should not go out with him. He is too old for you. In most places, it is against the law for people to be together if they are more than 3 years apart in age difference until you are 18. But whatever, it is your life.
2006-11-03 23:48:54 · answer #9 · answered by Jozef 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In most cases this is a terrible thing however. I was that guy and wasn't doing just for sex. I met this girl liked her and didn't know she was so much younger than I. So I asked her out. Everything was great.
2006-11-03 23:53:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, absolutely not! Do not let yourself get trapped in an abusive, controlling relationship, not to mention illegal. Most older men over the age of 18, that want to date 14, 15, 16 or 17 year old girls, chose them because they can take advantage of their naitivity and use them and abuse them to get them completely under their control. They will say or do anything to get you, and then when they have you, it is almost impossible for these girls to get away from the life of hell they are destined to live. By the time they decide they can't live like this anymore, they are so brainwashed by the abuse they can't make the right choices for themselves for he has done stripped them of that. Please, please please don't go out with him, I beg of you!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-03 23:54:09 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋