There is this one girl that i really like (or liked?). The last couple of times that i have hung out with her she seemed in just a bitchy mood....she was quiet and all her smiles were forced...everyone else was having fun while she seemed sad......this girl is my friend and i would do anything to make her happy. I havent talked to her in awhile....even though i see her everyday. what can i do to cheeer her up (if she is sad that is) or just make her in a better mood?
2006-11-03 15:44:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think that you should ask her what is wrong first to see if she will open up to you.Then if she doesn't then ask her if you can take her out sometime to get her mind off of whatever is bothering her. But DON'T avoid and ignore her. You never know she might be feeling the same feelings towards you!
2006-11-03 16:05:26 · answer #1 · answered by LovelygalCA 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, first you have to find out what it wrong with her. Then, you can help cheer her up. Just say that you've noticed she seems sad lately. DON'T tell her that she is acting mad or bitchy because she will just get defensive. Say something about how nice she is and what you like about her, and that she hasn't seemed like herself lately. Also, if in the past week you have told anyone you have a crush on her and she found out. That could also be the reason she's acting weird around you.
2006-11-03 23:50:49 · answer #2 · answered by mandie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may be forcing smiles on her face because she does not want to put a damper on your day. Most-likely she has a lot of anger/pain locked away that causes her to be in a consistent bad mood. Find out what she likes to do, like for fun/relaxation. Plan for her to do her fun thing with you. This should work. You may have to do this for days or get her to talk about what is going on with her.
2006-11-03 23:55:22 · answer #3 · answered by Honey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be her friend, sounds like she really needs a good friend now. she will come around, and probably let you know what's been bugging her. Take her out for a nice meal, just the two of you. If you really like her, bear with her. don't be afraid to tell her your real feelings. Give some nice attention.
2006-11-04 00:05:46 · answer #4 · answered by Speedbuggy43 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a sweet guy...and a good friend, too. Just let her know that you're there for her if and when she needs to talk. Sometimes us girls get deep in the estrogen funk, if you know what I mean...
Unless she's got any reason to be mad at you, then you might just want to leave it alone.
2006-11-03 23:53:48 · answer #5 · answered by Luvitall 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is so sweet...
look just ask her whats the problem?
and try to make her smile
hang out cheer her
support her
complement her
thats all u gotta do man!!!
good luck!!!
2006-11-03 23:48:56 · answer #6 · answered by Blah_123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah she probably has PMS or something, but if you still are concerned, just ask her in private if she is ok or if anythings wrong and see what happens
2006-11-03 23:49:34 · answer #7 · answered by tkay. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sing this song to her
http://www.singulartists.com/artist_t/thing_real_lyrics/you_to_me_are_everything_lyrics.html
or u can sing the William Hung's song "She Bangs!"
2006-11-03 23:48:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her out on a date.
2006-11-03 23:46:46 · answer #9 · answered by tqpinklady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she pmsing...anyway just buy some flowers maybe that'll make her happy
2006-11-03 23:46:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋