Ok Im 17 my sister is 14 and we have a great relationship, unlike most of my friend's siblings....well I talk to her about most things except my sexual activities...she's too young for all that. Well n e way on Tues. and Thurs. she has choir practice from like 4-5:45 and I pick her up afterwards so Im at home alone so I usually have sex with my bf. Well one day my bf was over on Tues and it was like around 4. We were doin it and my door was partly open, I didnt hear her come in but I just know Jeff was gettin it doggie style when he stopped I looked up and Miaya was like shocked then she closed the door and ran off. OMG that was soooo embarassing...her practice got cancelled and she rode the bus home. well I knew she wouldnt tell but like its sooo akward, I dont knw what to tell her...I know she knows what sex is and stuff but I dont think she ever seen n e one do it....I want to talk to her about it but I'm just speechless....what should I say???
2006-11-03 15:19:47 · 15 answers · asked by Ashley J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Here's an idea. Tell her the truth. Just level with her. Treat her like a friend. Respect her feelings and answer any questions she has truthfully. She's your sister, and she loves you...just as you love her. Don't let your fear of what she thinks or your embarrasement destroy this precious relationship! Later, Matt.
2006-11-03 15:27:57 · answer #1 · answered by adtmatt 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i do no longer think of a lot needs to be suggested. At 14, i'm specific she has a particularly sturdy thought what replaced into occurring. yet I doubt she will prefer to communicate it along with her sister. you need to tell her you're sorry, and promise to no longer be so careless as to leave the door open in destiny.
2016-10-15 08:49:59 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her you are sorry she had to see that. that you love her and she is right to be mortafied. explain to her sex is a natrual thing and in a few years she will learn that. but for now she should just pretend she didnt see that. make sure you tell her that she shoulndt have sex at her age and that when she does have sex later on in life that she should be safe and only do it with a boyfriend not a random guy and only after they have been dating for more than 6 months.
2006-11-03 15:29:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
That's so awkward! HAha. definetly apologize and reassure her that you're safe and next time you'll close the door wierdo No i'm jk but you should talk about it you're sisters
2006-11-03 15:24:11 · answer #4 · answered by good advice 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just apologize to her for being irresponsible and leaving the door open so she saw, then stress to her how important protection is.
2006-11-03 15:22:57 · answer #5 · answered by hahaha 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
im the same age as your little sister, and shes probably just as embassased as you are...maybe even a little more. if she hasnt said anything to you about this, or even indicated that she wants to talk about it, then she probably wants to act as if it never happened. it proably grossed her out a bit. id say, just act normal around her.
2006-11-03 15:25:11 · answer #6 · answered by Lisa 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Tell her about it. If not, it could scar her. Just don't touch her arm while talking to her about it because it gets uncomfortable when she thinks about where that arm has been so to speak. Just tell her basically.
2006-11-03 15:23:14 · answer #7 · answered by biggest_ncis_fan 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tough one. Give it a few days, act normal and frankly and truthfully answer anything she asks.
2006-11-03 15:23:30 · answer #8 · answered by Titan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to her as before ya got busted.
2006-11-03 15:23:27 · answer #9 · answered by noel_1939 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could av been worse he could av been giving you oral , an with you moaning she might av thought you were aving a giant baby.an phoned an ambulance.
2006-11-03 15:25:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋