in my family all of siter brothers are skinny!
and i'm tthe only one fat! my mom always call me fatty and i wish that someday is stop! ooh my family call me ! sometimes i just wish i want in the family!
help me plz.....
i'm 13 4'8 108lb! a fatttttttttttttttttttyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy,....................................!thanks
2006-11-03 14:51:04 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
OMG!!!!
If you think that's fat you must be out of your mind! Did you know the "healthy" weight for gilrs your age is 130 lbs! If your mom keeps saying you're fat, tell her this and tell her to stop calling you that because it's not good for a girl of your age for you self confidence!
I'm 13 as well. I'm 170 lbs! If you think you're fat, you're just calling girls and guys like me FAT. You're not only hurting yourself, but others as well, think. You're not fat!
AND YOUR MOM SHOULDN'T BE SAYING SO!
2006-11-03 14:55:41 · answer #1 · answered by mysteriousmystery 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fatty??? Your mother calls you fatty... Have you asked her nicely to stop calling you that? Have you stated how much it hurts to hear her call you that? Ask her if she could be a little more encouraging!!!
If you have, what an insensitive mother you have. Here's something that you can do... Lay off the sweets and carbohydrates... Rather than a soda, learn to enjoy a glass of water... Did you realize that sodas contain so many carbohydrates? 13% of your daily carbohydrate needs!!! ONE 12 oz CAN... So if you went to say McDonalds and had a quarter pounds which has like 14 grams of FAT... You have fries which add another 8 grams of FAT and 12% of carbohydrates... That's OVER 25% of your carbohydrate intake for a day!!! If you Supersize them, that's even MORE...
What you need to do is find an activity YOU like to do and do it? Running, Tennis, Golf, whatever will get you active... That's what you need to do in order to lose the weight and get rid of the fat...
2006-11-03 15:09:20 · answer #2 · answered by James B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep a journal of you what you want your mom to know. After a few entries have been made, let her read it. If this doesn't work try to get copies of the pictures of Nichole Richie and other celebrities that have come out with eating disorders and post them randomly in the house and tell her, she can love you the way you are because you refuse to be as miserable and disgusting as the celebrities are telling you to be. If this still doesn't work, speak with your school counselor.
good luck and with your stats you added, It think you are probably just right!
2006-11-03 15:15:47 · answer #3 · answered by alicia0821 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. You are not fat. Your mom has a problem...not you. Just because adults are older, does not mean that they are mature or problem-free. She sounds like the one who needs change, you're just a kid. Around your age, kids bodies change. You will probably thin out as you mature because thin runs in your family. Please, even amongst all the criticism, believe in yourself and know you are beautiful. This begins with never again calling yourself fatty. And don't listen to your mother. Be good to yourself even if noone else is.
2006-11-03 15:00:20 · answer #4 · answered by Lalalalalala 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You really aren't overweight for your height (just so you know).
Have you tried asking your mom to stop calling you fatty?
Make sure she knows that you don't like it and tell her how it makes you feel and whatever.
If she decides not to respect you or be sensitive to your feelings, ask to be excused from the conversation when she calls your fatty.
2006-11-03 14:56:38 · answer #5 · answered by Colique 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your mom thinks your fat she is mistaken. There are girls in my class who would kill to be that skinny. Your mom needs to understand that what she says is hurting you. If she doesn't stop get help from a school counselor or a trusted friend or adult. You must realize that you are not fat in the least.
2006-11-03 15:05:26 · answer #6 · answered by Almighty tallest red 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, it is so no longer common! you do no longer deserve this. Your mom and dad could think of they are doing the splendid element, yet they are so incorrect! mom and dad are meant to be those you are able to anticipate above every physique else. you're no longer even that obese! length 14 isn't precisely gruesome. and you're no longer executed growing to be yet. Do you have kin (aunt or uncle) you are able to communicate with approximately this? How a pair of well known instructor or counselor? Ask your mom to take you to the medical expert so which you will get secure advice on a thank you to consume wholesome. perhaps the medical expert will tell her what she is doing is incorrect. i'm effective you're a sturdy individual in many approaches. save a diary to remind your self of it once you experience unhappy. perhaps you are able to teach your mom and dad this question and the solutions from people who do no longer even know them. Dr. Phil had a female on his teach one time who replaced into complaining that her daughter replaced into fat (the undesirable female replaced into very almost 3 hundred kilos at age 14) and sturdy previous Dr. Phil informed the mum it replaced into her very own fault using fact she stored fat nutrition interior the abode and yelled at her daughter incredibly of helping her. perhaps you will hit upon that tale on his internet site. I used to have a poster I made myself that pronounced, "i must be fat, yet you're stupid! i'm able to circulate on a nutrition ordinary, yet the place are you able to get a concepts transplant?" sturdy good fortune, and write returned so we are able to objective that may additionally assist you.
2016-10-21 05:46:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey i've been there! I lost tons of weight just by jogging now i'm 15, 5"4 and 100 lbs. Maybe your mom calls you fat cause she thinks it will motivate you. Talk to her about stopping it because it hurts your feelings. Talk to your sibs about helping you lose weight, its ok, you only live life once don't stress it
2006-11-03 14:54:51 · answer #8 · answered by dimondbacks7 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
are you kidding??? 108 pounds is not fat! your mom must be out of her mind if she's calling you fat! and your bro's and sis's must be extra skinny if they're skinnier than you are!
dont listen to her, or just tell her how you feel. the way she's talking to you can give you very low self confidence. do something about that
2006-11-03 14:55:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
For Christmas, I would get her a book called Wasted. It's about anorexia. Let her read that that kind of perfectionistic bs drives many young girls to resort to eating disorders to be skinny.
2006-11-03 15:01:20 · answer #10 · answered by ValentineP 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋