I Need Him.....Help?

Question

Usually this is my best kind of problem to give advice to.....Liking a close guy friend.....I'd always tell them to watch out because taking the next step could jepordize a great FRIENDship they already have.

It doesn't seem to work for me. I'd always give advice, but now I'm feeling the problem for the first time.

I always kinda LIKED this guy.....I met him at the beggining of the year and wanted him to ask me out, then I got to kow him and got over it, then got to know hom MORE and sometimes I can't stop thinking about the dude!!! I used my test (close ur eyes and imagine urself and him kissing and c what u think) but when I do the test I can't c myself kissing him...all I know I just want to be in his arms and I can't believe I'm saying this but I don't want to like him. I'd even say no to a date just to keep the FRIEND. I REALLY DON'T WANT TO LIKE HIM LIKE THAT!!! I have trouble using the L-Word about him! See I can't even type it!

OMG I'M SO BEYOND FLIRTING WITH HIM!!!!

Did I mention he ISNT single?

Answer 1

Well,,, you need to see if the feelings are mutual. Just flirt playfully and monitor his responses -his reactions, his actions, his looks. If he gives back flirtatious vibes, then go for him! But if you feel like he is rejecting your vibes, then you and him are meant to stay just friends, and you will accept that :)

Answer 2

Go for it....you might be scarred on the inside of rejection....but as the old saying goes..it's better to have..well...lets not use the L word in your case..hahaha...its good to have crushes...and persue them. If they don't last...then move on. It' like scenes you see on tv or movies...they're friends...there's a struggle to admit it.....they kiss and sometimes it sparks and sometimes there's nothing and thats cool too!

Answer 3

Write him a letter saying how you feel. put it in his locker. write ur locker number on the note so he can reply by note too. i know it will take alot of thought and maybe it sounds dumb, but its way easier then just telling him in person. trust me, you wont get over it. heres an example -
Hey,
I like you alot. i dont know why, i dont know how, and i love being your friend, but i thought you should know that i like you - more then a friend. i dont want to ruin our friendship. write back on what u think.

Answer 4

aww you like him..how cute, just tell him, dont deny it to yourself..maybe youre just scared because you were always the one giving advice to people who were in your shoes..and now that youre trying the shoes on you dont know what size to wear..i say you should just ask him out on a date and see where that leads to....take a risk or youll ask yourself all the time the what if's and what to do's..and that sucks more than just asking someone on a date and getting it over with...good luck

Answer 5

1. Try flirting with him
2. See how he reacts
3. If he flirts back = good sign
If he doesn't = still a good chance
If he looks at you like you are crazy or actually says that you are crazy = he is so not worth your time

Answer 6

I had that SAME exact problem no joke! Just tell him u want to be friends and only that! it might be hard but it's the best way. You can't fake it forever, trust me!

Answer 7

what i think you are afraid of is either comiting to a relasionship with him or your afriad if you go to the next step he'd might hurt your feelings.

Answer 8

you love him .. well you should ace your feelings .. and ask him if he feels the same

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