Well i just went to the dance (7th grade) and two things went wrong. First isn't so bad...Well i only danced to one slow song with boyz that are like just my guyfriends. And the second thing made me almost burst out balling(but didnt), and it also made me really mad... Well the boy i like, Tanner, was there and i was kinda just standing next to him. And my almost like bff , Casey, was far away. Tanner and I moved a little closer(Casey likes Tanner also), and then Casey comes outa nowhere and barges between us! And then (theres this pro photographer there), later shes with him and a few other friends and she goes up to him, grabs his hand, and like says "come on, lets to take a pic"...AND she knows i like him! Well, then i Told my REAL BFF, Ally, what happened, and she went up to her and said, "Ok now what is your problem your flirtting with a guy that you KNOW your best friends likes", Casey said, "it's NOT MY fault!!!" And Ally was like, "O right its NOT your fault your a tease.
2006-11-03 14:46:10 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't stress it.. This will probably happen more in your life... First, you should have taken the first step and talked to the guy.. before she did... so he knows you like her... Second... your just in 7th grade. I KNOW all 7th graders think they can fall in love and blah blah blah.. but the fact is your in 7th grade and probably have a long life ahead of you and plently of new boyfriends and best friends. But next time if you like a guy... ask him out... 3rd... (you said you knew she liked him as well) so... if you know she likes him ... and you were trying to hook up with him... then wouldnt' that put you in her shoes of the bFF who started flirting with the guy she likes.. Sorry about the spelling and grammor in a hurry...
So just don't stress it... find a nother man... or ask him out...
2006-11-03 15:19:37 · answer #1 · answered by morfusaf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok i no you said Gals Only but im sum what good at this stuff i think you should sort ti out betwwen you's and instaed of fighting over a guy just be freinds him im pretty sure you rather have freinds than have non at all like in the end if you 2 fight over him it's goignt o pull you's apart and then no one win in the end so jsut be happey that you are all freinds pulse you still ahve lots of time for dating buy the way im 15 and not some random peron in there 30's(no ofense pplz)
good luck
2006-11-03 22:58:35 · answer #2 · answered by Tyler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if Casey is acting like that to Tanner, with knowledge that you like him, she isn't much of a best friend. you shouldn't let girls like her ruin things for you. next time, i'm not saying be evil or anything, but maybe just next time she's with Tanner, barge in a little. don't be rude, but join the conversation. it'll get to her.
2006-11-03 22:59:14 · answer #3 · answered by hey heather. =] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At sounds like to me the only friend you have is Ally cause Casey can never be trusted around any guy you like and she is jealous and not to be trusted so drop her like a hot potato good luck
2006-11-03 22:57:18 · answer #4 · answered by poda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
7Th grade boys ... hum mm well there are even better ones out there let the sl*ts filter the men ho res out then get you a guy that one day will make a lot of money while the others that we thought we liked sit around drinking cold beer looking gag with the girl that pulls his hand for a picture and has 15 kids. Stand tall and better than her smirk on you face.
2006-11-03 22:52:40 · answer #5 · answered by Karen H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First I want to say "You go girl!" to your bff. It takes a real friend to stick up for her girl. Don't let it bother you that this "tease" tries to steal your crush. If he falls for that "Type" of girl...then maybe your better off without him...but if you still show him your interested...you never know, he might like you more than he likes her. He might find her anoying for acting that way. I wish you luck girl!
2006-11-03 22:57:42 · answer #6 · answered by jessdjnick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Casey's not your friend.Stick with your real friends and don't worry about that guy.If he likes you he'll come around,and if he doesn't that means someone better will.Always remember good things happen to good people.Not mean people.
2006-11-03 22:55:46 · answer #7 · answered by fav0r1tegurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you and you're "bff" need to sort things out. either ask him who he likes better or just completely dump your friend and hang out with Ally. She's obviously the better friend. You need to work things out, or someone's feelings are going to get hurt.
Good Luck
2006-11-03 22:51:21 · answer #8 · answered by mysteriousmystery 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HA i remember 7 grade! Hun it'll be fine, just live life, i'm sure he'll start to like you, your friend cassey seems kinda pushy and guys don't like that. Don't stress your friend Ally's got your back stick close and you'll be fine.
2006-11-03 22:50:31 · answer #9 · answered by dimondbacks7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my sister and my cousin are in this exact situation.but anyways.well what if you did that to her..its wouldnt be ok either because she also likes him.so its not really a win win situation.
yes she was and excuse my language a ***** for doing it.ask her why she did it.try to work things out.and a real best friend would not do that so i say leave her and stick with your other best friend.
2006-11-03 22:58:24 · answer #10 · answered by unknown 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋