2006-11-03 14:42:54 · 15 answers · asked by Proud Mommy! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Anyone that tells you that love doesn’t hurt has never been truly in love.
Love hurts even when everything is going good. Even when you’re right there with them or there just in the next room and you just think of them it hurts deep in side but this is a good kind of hurt because you’re connected to that person.
Love hurts especially when things aren’t going well. I guess because when we open up and become vulnerable to that person we also open ourselves to being hurt. When we really love someone we are connected to them and when they hurt we hurt but when they hurt us it hurts all the more.
Love can really suck sometimes but stick with it there are always ups and downs to love.
2006-11-07 08:58:24 · answer #1 · answered by Mercy Max 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, what's up? You ok?
Love is the most powerful force there is. Men and women go to extraordinary legnths when deep in it's grasp, and do things, both bad and good, because of it. Now, love isn't just or fair, it just is. Being such, that means when it is not just or fair someone gets hurt. Sounds like you know a bit about that.
Time heals all wounds and things happen for a reason. You have to believe that. Your experience, no matter what it is, will make you smarter the next time out. Give yourself some time to heal from any hurt and come to a place where you are open to the possibilities again. The only way to love honestly and openly is to do it with your whole heart, and take a chance to get hurt all over again. Eventually, it will pay off.
Hang in there, and send me a mail if you need a pal to listen. I've been there. It sucks, but you'll be ok.
2006-11-03 22:52:18 · answer #2 · answered by bigwheeler19 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It hurts because it's real. It isn't a fantasy. It isn't a game. It isn't a joke or a prank. It's depths and magnitude are incomprehensible. You can't define it, explain it or control it. It defines YOU, explains YOU and controls many aspects of who YOU become. It creates- it destroys. It is hope- it is apathy. It's euphoria- it's despair. It's courage, and it is fear. It's comes to an end, and brings new life. We can't see it but we know it's there. We can feel it but can't touch it. It knows us well and we know it's there, but we have the most difficult time proving it. With it, we have superhuman strengths and direction- without it, we're lost. It heals... but it hurts.
It hurts when it's gone, and it hurts even when it's right there. It hurts while you feel it burning, and it hurts when it's lost. It hurts when he's not next to you and he should be. It hurts when you can't see him, hear him, or touch him- longing to have him there. It hurts when he can't be there and when you can't be there for him. It hurts while it's making it's debut, and it hurts feeling it may never be again. It hurts so bad that it makes you happy enough to cry. It hurts so bad that it makes you suffer enough to cry. It leaves you in constant suspense and then you cry some more. Love singles you out and treats you unfairly. It jockeys your emotions with a stoic sense of prey. Sometimes you try with all your might and it never budges. Sometimes you chase after it as it gets further out of reach. Sometimes it chases after you and you can't get away. It shows no mercy and has no boundaries. It makes you feel like a peasant- and it turns you into a queen.
To understand it is to understand who we are- to understand the depths of our own souls and those for whom we have feelings. It's often mistaken for what it isn't, or it's cloaked by something more arbitrary. You can't run from it. You can't deny it. You can only face it, understand it, work it, and embrace it's challenges- or it'll run from you. And that would hurt even more.
I can't tell you how or where or when or why or even if- but I can tell you that I understand that it hurts. But knowing that pain is to know the opposition of it- to know that it's strength can give you yours... to feel what you'll deserve... when you know that it's him. For you!
2006-11-05 12:58:55 · answer #3 · answered by Antny 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love is not suppose to hurt. So my guess is your dealing with someone who is either married, cheating on you, has a drug or alcohol issue. If one of he above is the issue, it is probably because the person you are dealing with does not love themselves and is not being true to them self. So you are loving for the two of you. Not fair. Love doesn't hurt when both are at the same place and being respectful of each other. Good luck to you and God bless
2006-11-03 22:48:00 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love hurts love hurts its in songs and its in life.We give our hearts to our love ones in hopes to get some in return.Some return it some refuse it and some share it.I gave my love for 25yrs getting some in return,but like life goes on,so did my love.I had to let it go,it hurt to much being next to it.I had to chose to live with just a little love,and see it loving someone else,or leaving it forever.Its been six years and it still hurts,she's gone taking a part of my heart and my love with her and her new love.Love hurts and I had to find a new love.Will this one hurt also, well that has not happen.You need to feel with your heart and think with your inter feelings,it will guide you,but it may not save you.
Good luck love
2006-11-03 23:12:25 · answer #5 · answered by plysocr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my advice is for younger ppl that are too young to fall in love but u are the kind to fall in love and have a great life
Forget about ur lover hes a loser if u think ur beautiful u are and he just lost some1 to grow old wit
my advice is to find a betta person remember its wats inside that counts would u want brad pitt to be ur hubby even if he is out all night partyin wit other gurl or would u rather have a decent guy dat dont have to look so great but he is good and listens to u
e-mail me to tell how im doin on this answerin thing
2006-11-03 22:49:47 · answer #6 · answered by wen godzilla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a good scenario...it shouldn't.
Love is the most beautiful thing in the world, if it's shared on both ends. Sometimes guys screw girls over and hurt them because they're looking for something other than love...but if you and your man are truly in love, it shouldn't hurt.
2006-11-03 22:46:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you associate love with pain. Like sooooo many women in the world who cant get over what their last jerk boyfriend did to them.
2006-11-03 22:46:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because you stop being all about YOU and end up giving your attention and feelings away to someone else. I say, keep them to yourself. What do we need with love, anyway?
2006-11-03 23:15:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because love means being disabled.it means being deaf and blind because of ur love.it has no solution just marriage.
love is too holly and not everyone know how to treat the love!
good luck
2006-11-03 22:57:07 · answer #10 · answered by karen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋