My girlfriend and I have been together two months and things have been absolutely incredible. We have mutual friends and totally hit it off from day one. We have not had a problem and always want to be with eachother. We talked 5 times a day (her choice). I would eat lunch with her once or twice a week (my schedule is very permitting). I would also spend Friday through Monday with her. All my friends say we are meant for eachother. I've never felt this way for anyone before either, she amazing. However, here's the kicker, she called me one day and said things weren't working out. Through all the talking it finally came out that another person had a crush on her. She also admitted to having a crush on him. As I found out more, they have been close friends for 3 years. She recently told me that since we haven't been together that long and he knows her better (according to her) she wanted to be with him. Should I be worried about this? Will she come back? Is there anything I can do? help
2006-11-03 14:34:02 · 7 answers · asked by J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get her back! Don't wait! It's competition, fair play! Do what u can to get her back even if u fail to do so, you can at least ans to yourself that u've tried your best then move on! But for now go get her back, she's your love! You can't wait for love to come back to you, you have to work for it! Good luck!
2006-11-03 18:43:47 · answer #1 · answered by Ignatius corleone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude,
This is easy to answer, NO!, you should not be worried about it, Nor should you make any effort on your part to get her back.
There is probably not much that you can do.
I wouldn't anywase.
She's proabably really stupid and immature, And I'm sure you would not say so, Heck I'm a guy and I've dealt with things like this I would never admit it until months later.
She's probably already spent plenty of time with him, proabably some when you guys were still together.
2006-11-03 22:46:48 · answer #2 · answered by the d 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is odd how a relationship isnt all about how long youre together or been together. someone can be together for years and never get to marriage. sadly things like this happen. let her go. if you love her.
2006-11-03 23:40:41 · answer #3 · answered by funky_homosapien 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard dude, but let her go.
She's not worth the trouble.
She dumped you for another guy.
That right there says it all.
What else do you need?
2006-11-03 22:42:37 · answer #4 · answered by powerkyter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just forget her and go on with your life..she is just not into you as much as you are into her...and that won't change..nothing can MAKE someone love you..it's there or it's not..and she doesn't love you that's for sure...
2006-11-03 22:38:13 · answer #5 · answered by marleyanne b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it does seem she is more fond of him...sounds like u got competition, i dont think she'll come back 2 u, i think u gotta go get her back, man.
2006-11-03 22:40:38 · answer #6 · answered by §†reet R¥dA 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
appreciate her honesty and let her go. who knows, there might be someone better
2006-11-03 22:36:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋