My girlfriend and I have been together two months and things have been absolutely incredible. We have mutual friends and totally hit it off from day one. We have not had a problem and always want to be with eachother. We talked 5 times a day (her choice). I would eat lunch with her once or twice a week (my schedule is very permitting). I would also spend Friday through Monday with her. All my friends say we are meant for eachother. I've never felt this way for anyone before either, she amazing. However, here's the kicker, she called me one day and said things weren't working out. Through all the talking it finally came out that another person had a crush on her. She also admitted to having a crush on him. As I found out more, they have been close friends for 3 years. She recently told me that since we haven't been together that long and he knows her better (according to her) she wanted to be with him. Should I be worried about this? Will she come back? Is there anything I can do? help
2006-11-03 14:32:22 · 6 answers · asked by J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think she may be living in the past, but this is something she has to realize. Do you love her enough to take her back? How long will you wait? These are questions you need to ask yourself. You two have not been toghter too long, and with this guy in her life is confusing her. You don't know what hes saying to her, do you? He could be playing her, but you don't say how long they were toghter, or how serious they were. I hope you can talk, their two of you, and be honest on how you feel, and if your not sure, say so. It will be the best thing to do. Good Luck!
2006-11-03 14:59:11 · answer #1 · answered by mybudnoobs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When the boat floats away from the dock,,,, all there is to do is watch the sunset,,,,
or shoot flaming arrows at the boat,,
Just keep in touch,, every few days just call or email her ,,, don't be pushy,,,,, soon the new interest will get old,,, and she may come back,,,, OR NOT ,,,,,,
I like the country song ,,, where his GF wants some time apart,,,,, so he goes out and does the only thing he can do,,,, GETS A NEW GF
2006-11-03 22:41:16 · answer #2 · answered by S h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some one who truely loves u will not leave u like that and all of a sudden say umm we are not meant to be or **** like that.
i dont think theres anything u could do to take her from that guy cuz they have a crush on each other. later on, she will probably realized that she made a mistkae and it will be too late. there plenty of other gurl who are better than ur gf whos gonna soon be ur ex gf.
well good luck with watever u do
2006-11-03 22:38:45 · answer #3 · answered by blablablabla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she doesnt really have feelings for you then you should let her go by talking to her for the last time on the phone have a conversation about any little thing
2006-11-03 22:36:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude i know u really dnt wanna hear this esp if u really like her but if she can jus up and leave 4 another guy then she aint woth it especially since u all had some seemingly good times l8r
2006-11-03 22:52:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her know how much you care for her. Let her know you will be there for her whatever choice she makes.
2006-11-03 22:36:11 · answer #6 · answered by Free Ranger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋