My guy and I have been OK friends for years, but have recently started dating. He has already told me he loves me several times. Do you think that he could have already fallen in love with me? I am just scared to take him seriously because I do not want to be hurt. We are both 25, and have both been in serious relationships before.
2006-11-03 14:07:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
when he walk the talk....meaning what he said is shown through his actions....
2006-11-03 15:10:11 · answer #1 · answered by chona a 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question to your self is .... What is your heart telling you. We all done this before. I am 29 years old , and have been married for 6 years . I am now a widow for the last 3 months and I will tell you that it is up-most important to follow your heart. Is he a christian. Hope so . And if so are you ready. If you are Then go and believe in him. Plus did you already do it with him . If you have stop tell him you will not for a while see if he changes that love. If you haven't just try telling him you want to wait a year or till married ... If he still loves you after that then it is true. Thanks
2006-11-03 22:15:00 · answer #2 · answered by Karen H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no sure way to know, but if you have been friends for years, he knows you pretty good and you should know him. Just date him for a while and see how he treats you. You can tell if a guy loves you. He's good to you, is reliable and consistent, looks at you across the room, is not jealous and demanding or abusive. You can just tell. Don't have sex with him. Not yet. Everything and I mean everything changes then. Also, if you want love, you have to take risks or be alone.
2006-11-03 22:14:21 · answer #3 · answered by Dianne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think it's been enough time for it to be actual *love* that's formed, then I'd believe him. But it could be one of those things that you just say, and you don't really fully mean it until later on when things get more serious.
I know y guys means it when we've dated for a long enough time, and he looks me in the eyes and I can almost actually physicaly feel his sincerity radiating off of him.
2006-11-03 22:11:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible for him to have developed these feelings if he has known you for a long time before you were dating. However, his time-line and yours do not have to run on the same clock. You wait to reciprocate (if ever) when you really feel it. Love is a powerful word, as you know so well, so use it wisely.
2006-11-03 22:10:50 · answer #5 · answered by Isis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will know, not by what he says, but by the look in his eye. His actions are tell-tale also. Don't be afraid to get hurt. You will someday....everybody does. Live life with everything you've got. Good luck.
2006-11-03 22:10:18 · answer #6 · answered by Lalalalalala 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sometimes you need to take a chance..stop being scared...what if you blow a chance at love..it is not something that comes around a lot....you may drag your feet too long and live to regret it..
2006-11-03 22:11:06 · answer #7 · answered by KT 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is a way to know whether or not any one is being honest but you really have to focus and pay care full attention (trust your instincts).
2006-11-03 22:15:16 · answer #8 · answered by koolhand_kent 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never can know.
Do yourself a favor and assume he DOES NOT mean it. You can't get hurt if you don't get suckered in.
2006-11-03 22:15:21 · answer #9 · answered by Chrissy: The Angry Typer a/k/a Mood Mole 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask him to do something that is rediuclious and see if he does it!
2006-11-03 22:10:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋