I like this girl in school but I'm not sure if she likes me, how can i tell? Girls, your info. will help a lot

Question

First of all I am 13 and I go to a school where the other 8th graders have gone out already and up to 3rd base as far as ive herd. I am very shy and I have never had a girlfriend before and I like this girl, but I am not sure if she likes me. She invited me to her Batmitzvah, and that was really the only one I was invited to. We also have the same birthday. Please help me to figure out if she likes me also and what I should do if she does, like ask her out, how to ask her out, what to do, because I can't drive and only made some money from mowing in this past summer. Girls, your sugestions and point of view will help me alot. Thanks a bunch. :+) Also I am not the most popular kid in school and how can i tell if she likes me back, any signs, maybe if she looks at me some way. Come on i need ur help I am a kid trying to start out in the "real" world.

Answer 1

slow down...slow down...
One, you don't need to be basing your relationships off of what's "cool" and sex. Yeah, I understand, you're a 13 year old guy, and you're thinking about that stuff...but girlfriends and relationships and love, they're all based on alot more than that.
Honey, 3rd base is major. And, to girls, it's extremely emotional to get that physical with someone. You don't want to go off hurting anyone...so think about this for a minute. Let your own heart guide you, not the thing between your legs.

With that said...sounds like she definately sees you as a good friend. Bat mitzvahs and Bar Mitzvahs, they're pretty big deals. This is good.
Ask around with people who know her, see if you can get details. But be sly, say stuff like "Do you know if *so and so* likes anyone?". If you want her to find out you like her (because some people are like that), just suggest the idea to enough people...it'll get back to her eventually. The "gossip" will make her start thinking about that possibility of a relationship.

But hun, you can't force anything. Just let it come to you. Be her friend, and it'll all fit into place. Maybe you guys are just meant to be friends, or maybe it'll take a year or so before she comes around and sees you more than that...but never lose hope. It's not all about dating, because friendships are worth alot more.

And remember, we girls ARE very emotionally attached...I know she would be your first girlfriend, but I'm just giving a gentle warning...try not to hurt her. It's not good for either of you.

Good luck ^_~

Answer 2

If she invited you to her Batmitzvah she probably likes you. Hang out with her while you guys are at school and flirt with her everytime you get the chance. Tell her how you feel. I know that it will be hard to do, but it's the only way to know for sure how she is feeling. As far as the dating thing goes, I guess you guys could go to a school football or basketball sometime. I guess I really don't know what else to tell you.

Answer 3

I would say that you invite her to your birthday party. or that you throw one togethor since its both your birthdays.
First of all become really good friends with her. THen if you still have romantic like feelings for her. go for it. take the romance like steps slowly to see if she likes it. but make her your best friend. You'll know if the steps are upsetting her then.
Dont rush into 3rd base, those kids are idoits (and the future janitors of america)

Akoona matata buddy !! DOnt freak out.
Just talk to her like you'd talk to your guyfirends (but uhm. . . not as crude)

Answer 4

I'm not sure what you mean with the whole party thing, but when i like a guy, i always:
-try to get to know him via aim or just walking up to him and talking
-smiling at him alot
If your'e sure she likes you, go ahead ask her out. if you know she's been flirting with you theres really no harm in asking her out. Also i've been told that if a girl likes you her pupils *the black part of the eye* dialate (become bigger) as she talks to you.

Answer 5

I think she likes you since a Batmitzvah is a very special thing. If she likes you back, ask your friends if they want to go to the movies, then ask her. So you won't be afraid and you can ask one of your friends for help.

Answer 6

Aww check out the youngblood trying to grow up how cute.but anyway the best thing to do is just ask the girl the worst she could say is no. yes that sounds cheesey but hey you'll be ok and buy her a gift earings and jewerly are a favorite among females. Good luck babe!

Answer 7

okay well first dont feel like you have to go to "ythird base" or we becasue everyone else has. if your birthdays are the asame day and soon do something for her birthday like bring her balloons. you dont have to be popular to get someone to like you. just maybe go up and say like, hey whats up? did you know we have the same birthday, maybe this year we could do something togethre for it... just try to get to know her and talk to her. whatever you do dont do anything stupid like lie, pretend to be something your not, or be corny and cheesy(unless of course its funny) :)

Answer 8

Lucky you, you like a girl who invited you to her batmitsvah. this could be an opportunity for u to finally get a date, dont blow it

Answer 9

ok well first u got to habg out wit her. then ya got to talk and u have to look at hints like shes really happy to see u and other stuff. then wen ya get the courage just ask her!! if she says no it doesnt mean yall cant talk anymore. if she says yes ask her out. and member dont worry if all the other went to 3rd base. as long as yall are happy nufin shood matter to u ya get me. so just try wat i said. girls arent as cunfusin as u think

Answer 10

hmm
hard to tell but,she might like u bc she invited u to her batmitzvah
maybe u should ask her out