It's one of those times, that you hear the words, such as I really love you! But in some situations, she's showing no respect of how or why I feel like I do, I don't see the sacrifice I believe that should be there when we talk about real love.
2006-11-03 13:47:24 · 8 answers · asked by Dean Corso 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you feel like she shows no respect, DON'T DO IT. Your instincts already told you what's up.
2006-11-03 13:52:15 · answer #1 · answered by wondering 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a really good catch!! (silly girl if she doesn't get you, man oh man..) Seriously tho.. there are no real guarantees in this life (boy don't I wish..) especially in things of this nature.. 'matters of the heart.' Weird when someone you think it totally committed like dives off the deep end somehow and the 'worst possible matchups' end up together for eternity, sometimes..now that I think of it.. You can't know how things will go. Question is.. (drum roll) do YOU love her ..enough.. to gamble on this.. o.k. take this chance then? Think on it a while. Your idea of sacrifice might be different than hers. The man does still, in our society bear the brunt of the responsibility to provide materialistically.. (Her resp. still basically is the nurturer..) I know, feminists shoot down that statement, I hear it coming.. Real love IS sacrifice.. you answer(ed) your own question.. You need to trust her (yes, a sacrifice.. perhaps.. your heart is clearly not in it right now.. why not?) DOES anyone else see this, feel the same way you do (maybe?) Did someone 'point this out' to you, trying to be helpful? It's just that I find it weird you came to this conclusion (did not mention it to her.. maybe you are afraid tho this will turn her off.. It in all likelihood well may..) I say keep it to yourself.. (They say marriage is giving ll0% ..on bolth sides.. sigh.l. they weren't kidding either. Mine is most difficult!) peace-n-luv
2006-11-03 21:54:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, If you're even asking yourself "Can I trust this person?" Then she obviously isn't giving you a lot of reason to trust.
2006-11-03 21:54:35 · answer #3 · answered by shakat000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you already know the answer. if you're in doubt now, why waste your precious time? life is too short.
2006-11-03 21:53:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have to ask then she is not you should know with out asking
2006-11-03 21:50:32 · answer #5 · answered by rradboys 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it to her stupid and find out make yourself a believer!!!!!!!!
2006-11-03 21:49:41 · answer #6 · answered by Darnella C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your heart tells you to trust her .. you should
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2006-11-03 21:50:22 · answer #7 · answered by c g 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
when in doubt....don't go all out!!!!
2006-11-03 21:49:36 · answer #8 · answered by KT 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋