ok so i really like this girl. ive lliked her for about a year now and we talk alot and lately ive been wondering if i should tell her i like her. i flirt with her alot, but its hard to tell with her if she is flirting back or just being her. i really want to tell her but i don't know what she would say or do if she doesn't see me the same way.
i am hesitant to tell he because a few years ago, i was in the same siuation with another girl, and i told her but she didn't like me and we haven't talked at all since.
2006-11-03 13:41:07 · 21 answers · asked by Piano_Man 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
girls have certian "things" that they do that show that they're flirting. Ask some one what they are, K.
2006-11-03 13:45:11 · answer #1 · answered by no body special 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know why you would be hesitant to ask this girl out, she could just like you as a friend or mabey more, you have to decide if telling her is worth the risks, or mabey rewards. But i think you should tell her. she could realy be feeling you too! And remember you shouldnt let bad experinces keep you from possiby having good ones. Even if she dosnt like you mabey try telling her youd still like to be friend and talk from time to time. But you look nice in your avatar pic. Im pretty sure shell like you too, and if not there will be somone else out there for you. Good luck! :)
2006-11-03 14:00:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may be waiting for you to make the first move. You don't really have to come out and tell you that you like her. Why don't you ask her to go somewhere with you? You don't have to say it is a date, but make it one. Pay her way and make it a nice time. If she just likes you as a friend, then she will let you know. If you and she have been talking a lot, I bet that even if she does just like you as a friend, you will be able to continue your friendship.
Good luck.
2006-11-03 13:44:59 · answer #3 · answered by Patti C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in the same situation
with a boy
but this is my plan Im gonna send him a note that says We Need to talk, then that person would have a little clue about what your gonna say and give that person a little time to think dont make them think so hard to think of the negatives.
Get it
2006-11-03 13:44:49 · answer #4 · answered by carecherl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MMmmm...well im sorry about the past thing with that other gurl..but if u didnt tell that gurl how u felt this wouldnt have happened...so i say tell her...if she doesnt like u or just doesnt feel the same way life will still go on and mayb shell come around.. ; ]
2006-11-03 13:45:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you like her. If she stops talking to you, shes not worth it.
Also, if she likes you to, ask her out, some girls are old-fashioned in the way that they won't ask a guy out, but will go out with him if he asks her out. I told guys I liked them and Im still friends with at least one of them. Although I have a crush on him again, and he has a girlfriend, we still manage to be great friends.
2006-11-03 13:45:15 · answer #6 · answered by Sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i had the same prob. w/ a boy i really liked but we was like best friends. well i think u should tell becuz if u dont tell well maybe she likes u but it waiting for u to saysumthin. i think the best idea is to tell i mean if she dont like u back its not like yall cant talk. if yall are real friends and she says no yall will still keep talking. trust me i know. thtas wat happened wit me!!
2006-11-03 13:47:25 · answer #7 · answered by Jekah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well....shes probably worth the risk you should tell her...she most likely would be mad at you for keeping this from her...just tell her you have something to tell her & you dont want it to ruin the friendship you have. o yeah and if she does let it ruin the friendship shes not worth it.
2006-11-03 13:44:32 · answer #8 · answered by Beka14 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUST TELL HER! you never know.. maybe she likes you too and if you dont tell her she will just move on! THEN.. you'll be feeling sorry for yourself.. and regret not telling her. YOU NEVER KNOW.. what have you got to lose.. TELL HEr!
2006-11-03 13:59:13 · answer #9 · answered by miss♡hollywood 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her out. You just cant loose. If she says no, well just keep on talking to her. it will be odd bu then you will get over it.
2006-11-03 13:44:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋