I miss talking to my ex-boyfriend I still like him some, but im not ready to date, I wish he would talk to me, but he's mad at me. How can I get him to talk to me?
2006-11-03 13:36:41 · 18 answers · asked by Sarah 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I dont want to date him, but I still love him?
2006-11-05 14:07:12 · update #1
It takes time when you break someone's heart. Give it a chance if he really has feelings for you he will come around, if he doesn't move on. You still have a lot of life to live. Project yourself to new interests.
2006-11-03 13:42:16 · answer #1 · answered by Al B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you broke up with him, give him some time. I just went through the same thing recently and haven't talked to my girlfriend for a week. I still like her as a friend, but I need some time to cool down before i can have a civilized conversation with her. He probably feels the same way.
2006-11-03 21:41:07 · answer #2 · answered by jmethod81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You broke the guys heart. From personal experience, friendships with exs are doomed from the get go (I've tried to be friends with three) the onely reason someone agrees to be friends, is because one of them is hoping for another chance. Let the poor guy move on. If you really like talking to him that much, you probably wouldn't have dumped him. You'll both get over it if you let it go.
2006-11-03 21:40:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best advice - when it's over it's over. Move on. All the effort trying to get your ex to stay close to you will only make you look more pathetic to him. The consolation: Within the next five years you'll probably run into him again. You'll then know you made the right choice.
2006-11-03 21:39:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most likely he's hurt and why would you want to keep hurting him by trying to be nice now. If it was you, How would you feel, "honestly" if someone didn't want to be with you? Give him time and let him approach you first. Try saying your sorry when he does talk to you and explain in a nice way why you did what you did,then let him make the first move.
2006-11-03 21:45:32 · answer #5 · answered by wildcat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him and leave him alone he doesnt want you anymore and he really doesnt want someone who keeps bothering him. you will get more attention by him if you left him alone. then he might call you, wondering why you havent talked to him, guys are crazy like that. AND START DATING!
2006-11-03 21:44:21 · answer #6 · answered by MixedQtee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would put aside your needs and think about his. He probably has feelings for you and it's difficult for him to talk to you. If you don't have the intention to be with him, let him go.
2006-11-03 21:40:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm.. this one is tough.. but you can either:
1 - make him jealous
2 - go up to him face to face and ask him to stop being an ***
but overall.. you know him more than any of us.. so you have to make the final choice. asking a bunch of strangers on Yahoo! isnt going to help much.
2006-11-03 21:41:14 · answer #8 · answered by amanda. 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
jus try to get him to listen to you for atleast a few mins and that if he was mature about the situation he would listen and tell him how you feel and hopefully he will understand
2006-11-03 21:40:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time will tell! Give him time to think. When you see him, just smile and say hi. eventually he will start to come around.
2006-11-03 21:46:48 · answer #10 · answered by melissa g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋