theres this kid thats really nice and he asked me out and i dont know him that great, i just moved, and i would like to get to know him more before i say yes. what do i do?
2006-11-03 13:31:00 · 18 answers · asked by christina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
honesty is always good, so tell him the truth.
just don't lead him on if you don't like him all that much. guys are sensitive, fickle creatures on the inside lol
=]
2006-11-03 13:53:50 · answer #1 · answered by closetoptimist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, try to sit down with that person and explain how you feel. Tell him that you are not ready for a relationship at this time. So lets just be friends and hang-out and see where the relationship goes.
2006-11-03 13:37:35 · answer #2 · answered by melissa g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you are not interested in going out with him right now. Tell him the truth. Tell him that you just to want to hang out with him as friends for now, until you get to know him better. Then you will go from there and see if you think that you are interested in more.
2006-11-03 13:38:13 · answer #3 · answered by lem 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well say "well i guess why dont we have lunch some time and then lets see were it goes from there" and if u two have a lot in coman then go for it say yes if not just tell him how u really feel about him mayb he will see it the same way u do
2006-11-03 13:34:44 · answer #4 · answered by *Living a {{ღяøM@N!Cღ}} Tragity* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that. Sit down with him and say, "I'm really flattered that you like me, but I'd really rather get to know you better before I decide if I'm on that same level about you. Is that okay?"
I'm sure he'll understand. Make sure he knows you aren't saying you'll date him in the future, but that you'd rather be friends now and get to know him better.
Good luck!
2006-11-03 13:33:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them that you are FLATTERED but that you feel you guys should just be friends for the time being. If you tell them that your flattered they will know that they are up to your standards and that they are not reallly getting rejected just being put on the waiting list.
2006-11-03 13:35:04 · answer #6 · answered by funkucla!!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should wait till you get to know him better before you say yes because you never really know how he could be
2006-11-03 13:34:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him youd like to get to know him better,talking to each other is a great way-what interests you may have in common,let him come over to your house and just talk before you actually go out
2006-11-03 13:36:06 · answer #8 · answered by fantasia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kid? How old are you? In any case, you need to tell him that you would like to get to know him before anything proceeds or doesn't proceed?
2006-11-03 13:36:46 · answer #9 · answered by Iron What? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mmm..thats a hard 1...just tell him u dont really know yet and plus u just moved so ur getting used to ur place!=]
2006-11-03 13:33:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋