We have been together 2 months.
I work nights. He works days.
He says he likes me a lot. Most of our dates are movies or late night. Sometimes sex, sometimes not.
He has been here 3 times.
I have been to his house many more than that and a couple times when his son was home on a weekend.
I gave him several ways we could see each other more often.
He likes the one where he comes over here after work if I have the night off and he could stay over, or if I have to work that night, he would leave early.
Guess I'm just being used for sex? right?
He has a teenage son that stays with him on week-ends.
2006-11-03 13:27:53 · 9 answers · asked by Patricia 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I dont know... he has a son..they take up time.. he works days, you work nights.... sounds like he may just be busy. You said you dont always have sex..sometimes just spend time together... plus if you have met his son, this could mean a lot... I have dated a few times since my divorce and never introduced the guy to my sons.... Will not until I get serious with a guy and he serious with me.
Guy and gals have a different way of communicating but honesty always works.
You should be straight with him... if your serious about him and want a committment ask him how he feels about you. good luck
2006-11-03 13:40:30 · answer #1 · answered by sweetsal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, straight up...? I have been with girls for just sex and I have been in long relationships too. But, I'm straight up and l let them know exactly what I'm looking for when we get together. If you haven't had this talk then listen up...I'll tell you exactly the signs that you need to look for!
Top Ten signs that you are being used for sex:
1. He doesn't invite you to hang out with his friends.
2. Your dates consist of movies--no talking allowed!
3. He does not invite you to spend time with his son on outings.
4. You only have sex with your face in the pillow and he's behind you--doggy style!
5. You rarely have sex face to face.
6. Dinner ---there is no dinner!
7. He never talks about his feelings
8. You haven't met his parents
9. He does not want to meet your family
10. He flirts with your friends in front of you
2006-11-03 21:42:11 · answer #2 · answered by nikc_001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry but yea the truth sometimes hurts... I think thats all he is useing you for a good way to figure it out on your own just for youself... Test him... don't give him sex at all for a long time... and if he doesn't act any diffrent then it's not all about the sex.. but if he does act diffrent you will know.. and it would be better to get out of this thing or relationship you have with him now before it hurts more in the future when you start to develop strong feelings for him, don't waste your time on somebody who doesn't care for what you have inside..
2006-11-03 21:36:08 · answer #3 · answered by maria U 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah sounds like you need to find a new man.
2006-11-03 21:31:22 · answer #4 · answered by blueberry_coconut_1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he is just using you for sex
2006-11-03 21:38:09 · answer #5 · answered by Hermes711 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not necessarily..you did say sometimes NOT right..so if you spend time NOT having sex..how are you getting used????
2006-11-03 21:30:17 · answer #6 · answered by KT 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to read the book, "He's just not that into you."
2006-11-03 21:29:30 · answer #7 · answered by I'm Trying 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unfortuantely yea
2006-11-03 21:30:52 · answer #8 · answered by Miss Mai Tai 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup, ha ha.
2006-11-03 21:29:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋