to another dude. don't know how many times, but she wants me to kiss her and im hesistant. We have limited time together (college next fall) and ive never kissed before. I'm hesistant cuz she gave oral, and im thinkin the reason she wants to be physical (hug alot kiss etc) is cuz she wants me to replace him. I like her alot, but i cannot tell if she sincerely likes me (tho it seems she does) or if she is jus expecting me to satisfy her temporary needs...can someone tell me what to do? should i kiss her? or should i ask be more intrusive and ask her more about her relationship? she doesnt seem to be open about it either.
2006-11-03 13:25:37 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
to another dude. don't know how many times, but she wants me to kiss her and im hesistant. We have limited time together (college next fall) and ive never kissed before. I'm hesistant cuz she gave oral, and im thinkin the reason she wants to be physical (hug alot kiss etc) is cuz she wants me to replace him. I like her alot, but i cannot tell if she sincerely likes me (tho it seems she does) or if she is jus expecting me to satisfy her temporary needs...can someone tell me what to do? should i kiss her? or should i ask be more intrusive and ask her more about her relationship? she doesnt seem to be open about it either. She has told me she is a virgin, and i sincerely believe this. She is very warm, caring; this is why im in such a state of confusion.
2006-11-03 13:53:35 · update #1
to another dude. don't know how many times, but she wants me to kiss her and im hesistant. We have limited time together (college next fall) and ive never kissed before. I'm hesistant cuz she gave oral, and im thinkin the reason she wants to be physical (hug alot kiss etc) is cuz she wants me to replace him. I like her alot, but i cannot tell if she sincerely likes me (tho it seems she does) or if she is jus expecting me to satisfy her temporary needs...can someone tell me what to do? should i kiss her? or should i ask be more intrusive and ask her more about her relationship? she doesnt seem to be open about it either. She has told me she is a virgin, and i sincerely believe this. She is very warm, caring to everyone (in a nice, not slutty way); this is why im in such a state of confusion.
2006-11-03 13:54:35 · update #2
First of all, how much do you like her and want to be in a relationship with her? What kind of relationship are you expecting to have if you can't get over the PAST relationship she had? You should follow your instincts. If you're this hestitant to KISS her, something's wrong. If you're in a meaningful relationship, I would think you would be able to ask/answer anything. What's in the past is exactly that.
2006-11-03 13:30:30 · answer #1 · answered by Steph L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe your suspension are correct about her. With college coming up you must be very careful or you could quickly ruin your life. She is not the girl for you!. She has had too much experience for you and could get you in trouble. THINK, THINK THINK! You are exactly right, she looking for a replacement for the physical feelings she has experienced before and wants to do that with you if you let her.. I sure hope you hold your ground and don't give into her wiles. Find yourself a nice experienced girlfriend who is NOT chomping at the bites for a physical relationship!
2006-11-03 13:34:49 · answer #2 · answered by ruthie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A 2 year relationship. Your'e lucky that's all she did!! If she likes you and she wants to kiss you and cuddle you get on with it. She's not asking for sex, she just wants contact. Your other option is to advertise for a virgin. But will she want to shake your hand (if she knew where it had been). Maybe a virgin will think you only want her cos she's still new. Don't sweat the small stuff. Make your move or you'll miss the boat.
2006-11-03 13:32:50 · answer #3 · answered by Angel Devil 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, first off I am wondering how you know she did that?!?! Normally girls don't go around saying they did that to their exes, espically to their new boyfriend. If you really like her though, your gonna have to kiss her, and if you can't even bring yourself to kiss her because she did that, I don't know, It reminds me of the question a few weeks ago how this one guy didn't want to be with this girl that was divorced because she wasn't a virgin. Good luck finding a girl that hasn't done these things.
2006-11-03 13:37:18 · answer #4 · answered by Corona 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her about it and watch her eyes if she look sincere sound sincere and you believe her with your heart then conutine dating her.kissing aint no thing once you start and if you really wish to get medical Seman only stays on or in the body for 3 days.
2006-11-03 13:35:49 · answer #5 · answered by Miss k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to get over it, probably 70 percent of women have oral sex, perhaps even higher, are you going to refuse to kiss any woman the rest of your life, or ask her if she ever gave oral sex.....This is extremely immature.
I might understand if it was 5 mins ago....but what happened months ago has no bearing.....now.....If it makes you feel better
have her give you oral.
I got news for you though, any man who expects his wife or GF to give him oral sex and refuses to kiss her afterwards will soon not be getting either......
That is a major turnoff to women.
2006-11-03 13:30:11 · answer #6 · answered by Rick D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
properly thats a tuff question, your giving it too her yet ain't getting plenty lower back.. sacrifice is massive in a marriage.. i might ought to renowned extra information exterior of the intercourse life to assert specific or no. I mean oral intercourse should not be a deal breaker in case you relatively love somebody, yet does she relatively love you lower back? Does she sacrifice her time potential, money etc. for you as much as you do for her? you will possibly ought to sit down down and communicate this out..
2016-11-27 02:02:03 · answer #7 · answered by reel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
KISS HER! BUT be sure she has brushed (if you have been dating for 3 weeks I would hope she has brushed). Kissing is normal in a relationship. If you are not sure how she feels about you talk to her. If she don't want to talk about it then she probably isn't worth your time. GOOD LUCK!
2006-11-03 13:31:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2017-02-28 12:01:22 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make her brush and flosss before her next meal!
2006-11-03 13:27:00 · answer #10 · answered by fantasticopinionsfree 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋