ok it's a long story but...?

Question

ok well it's a long story but im going to try to sumerise it a little for you.. ok i called my bf and his mom ansered his cell long story short she asked who i was and i told her lauren and she was like " lauren lauren we need to have a little talk " so she went on she was like " ok you lisrten here you little tramp don't you ever call my son again!! and she threatend me about things and told me i need to delete him off my fone because she already deleted me off his. and she went on telling me i was a whore and a tramp. ( oh and she never liked me in the first place bc she believed rumors which werent even true ) i'm sittin here in the chair and i was shaking because i was upset and unsure why she is going off on me like this....and im only 13.....so i told a friend to tell my bf to tell him that me and him r over...i don't understand why she did that..she doesn;t even know me! i still really like him what should i do?! forget about his rude mother and move on? or stay with him? HELP

Answer 1

Well, Lauren,(sorry if I misspelled your name okay) It's like this, speaking from a mother's point of view, if she has heard something bad about you then you need to find a nice way to get it to her that the rumor is not true, mothers can be very over protective of their sons sometimes, I have daughters and I can be over protective over them at times, Let me ask you this much, do your mother know of this relationship between you and this young man? and if so do she approve of it? If so then you need to actually tell your mom what she said to you, and let her handle that because even if she was over protective of her son, you are still someone's child and she should not have spoken to you like that in that manner with those names and things.
But back to the point at hand, next time you see your little boy friend you need to ask him what was up with his mom disrespecting you like that you know, what ever you do do not disrepect her because that will only make it worst, but after you have had a talk with your little boy friend and he do not want to explain to his Mom that whatever she heard is not true then you do not need to be bothered with him you know?
I hope you the best luck with this matter but, if you are getting a rep so big that it's getting to the adults than you need to change some of your ways to young lady and respect yourself above all okay, you are a princess and should be treated as such................

Answer 2

It sounds to me like he became waiting so which you would be able to grant the eco-friendly mild to PDA's interior the midst of your pals. that's awkward for a guy (and the lady I think of) to pursue a woman who has been or is in a les/bi courting b/c we assume that's troublesome to come again out and we don't have the desire to make you sense such as you would be able to desire to decide directly to "bypass lower back in" esp whilst acquaintances are around. I talk first hand and might inform you that once that's in basic terms the two one human beings at the same time, that's complete bf/gf, yet round her acquaintances that's friendly flirting at maximum suitable. I hate it and need you're greater desirable tailored to the region. i'd additionally upload he does not look to savour his modern-day gf too plenty. in basic terms confirm he keeps his be conscious.

Answer 3

I'd say you have a problem if his mom doesn't like you and she's never met you that's a mom that's not willing to let her baby go shes going to do everything in her power to keep him a baby and in her arms Id say forget about him your only 13 and I bet there's many other guys out there that would like to date you you don't need that crap. Unless your boyfriend makes a move to you like he really wants to be with you and screw his mother and will do whatever it takes to be with you then give it ago other wise run

Answer 4

Yay for over-protective parents! Ha, not really. What she said was horrible. If you want to keep the relationship, maybe you can try to get to know your boyfriend's mother, dispel any rumors, let her know how you feel about her son, etc.
The same thing happened to me in a relationship when I was 16, the parents just wouldn't let me near them and I was forced to move on. It was for the better, eventually. If it doesn't work out, keep his evil mother in mind and try to move on and be happy.

Answer 5

is there anyway you can talk to your mother about this thing? icant even imagine talking to a 13 year old like that but maybe she is one of those people who control every move her son makes and if thats so you really are better without him and besides you are only 13 and have plenty of time to date and in my opinion shouldnt be dating now your to young even though i know your feelings were really hurt and im sorry but some mothers are just like that.

Answer 6

first if all little girl go to school and get an education and worry about boys latter you have your whole life ahead of you no time for boys right now really the bottom line is that your not ready for a relationship so the best relationship you can have is one with them books good luck any way

Answer 7

Well obviously, it might be that she doesn't like you, but if you were talking to him too much and his grades were dropping, then she might of done that to punish him(it happens). unless she really is a ***** and was like that. What you should do.hmmmm....don't go out with him, but still b friends and once his mother forgets about you then start slowly going out with him. Make sure nothing changes in his grades or anything.

Answer 8

well the mother shouldn't have called you those kind of things, but you are to young to be dating or thinking of boys anyway. i cant believe little girls moms let them date at that age' you need to be thinking of school and what to do with your life . wait at least another two years before you start worrying about boys.

Answer 9

You really don't need the drama at your age (or even when your older). I bet his Mom overhead one of his phone conversations with his friends where he didn't paint you in the best light. This is pretty normal for boys his age. Just forget him and find someone who appreciates you better.

Answer 10

I think the mother overreacted and she is being protective of her son. I don't think you should be dating him... I wouldn't ...not with a mother who calles you a tramp.