During sex, my boyfriend told me "Tell me where you want it" and I was totally grossed out and offended. Was I right to be and do guys like that (shooting "it" where you tell them too)??
2006-11-03 13:02:07 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Boys...they are different. Maybe he really digs you lol. But if it offends you, then don't let him have it for a while. Give hima punsihment, like no kissing, punsihment is a good thinglike a privalge but oppisite. And you guys we making love weren't you? You're suppost to be crazy and stuff like that during "that" I thought. Oh well whatever! Good luck! Here 2 help!
2006-11-03 13:05:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
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2016-10-03 06:21:30 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have said something along the lines of 'I'm not that kind of girl!' But, hey, guys are not psychic so sometimes they do ask to see what they can get away with. And yes SOME guys do like that sort of thing. If you do decide that is something you want to do please use some sort of lube. Otherwise there will be many problems. And talk to him if he makes you uncomfortable getting mad at him really doesn't solve anything especially if you don't tell him why you are mad.
2006-11-03 13:08:13 · answer #3 · answered by zara01 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He was a dumb *** for asking you during sex. The only way that works during sex is if the girl says it....and as we think like cavemen during sex - will most likely take care of you!
Either way, sounds like you need to talk about a few things before you do it again.
2006-11-04 14:55:48 · answer #4 · answered by bardstale 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a guy talking, i would ask the same question. I wouldnt ask that question if we had been together before though. All women are different. Dont be grossed out unless u have been with him before?
2006-11-03 13:09:58 · answer #5 · answered by brock 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have every right to feel the way you feel so no you're not wrong. But just a thought...Sometimes talking dirty enhances sex, i love when I BF talks dirty to me. He can get a little to dirty for me at times but I know he's trying. Maybe your BF was just trying to add to the moment. Try talking to him and letting him know the kinds of things that turn you on and what things turn you off. Guys think differently then women. Try to get on the same page.
2006-11-03 13:07:12 · answer #6 · answered by jephrodite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If something like that offends you & grosses you out, then you're too young and immature to be having sex.
2006-11-03 13:05:00 · answer #7 · answered by My Evil Twin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you speaking of ejaculation? Sure, its not romantic and you may end up with a face full if youre not prepared .
So go be like a girl scout and always be ready (towel off to the side)
2006-11-03 13:12:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its during sex so you cant blame him, guys lose their mind during sex and say weird things and act like monkeys or some sort of animal. just tell him that his comment made you feel dirty and tell him "where you want it" (in a nicer way) and if he continues to make comments after your talk, you can tell him where to put it!
2006-11-03 13:08:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
At least he's interested in pleasing you; he cares about what you want; wants to make sure your experience is enjoyable. Sure he can be a bit more tasteful w/ it, but hey, that's where you come into play. Just tell him ''where'' you want ''it'', and from what it sounds like......he'll put it there!! You could have a selfish boyfriend that only cares about getting his!
2006-11-03 13:05:38 · answer #10 · answered by NURSING FOR LIFE!! 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋