Ok so last night I was going to ask my on and off gf back out and I know she knew i was going ask but I changed my mind. I mean last night was great we didnt fight she didnt act jealous, we flirted a bit and told each other that we love each other. So at the end of the I still didnt ask her back out and when was time for me to go she acted like a jerk to me. So today I log on msn and when i get on she says hi and crap but 5 mintues into the conversation her mood changed and called me a jerk and left. What was her deal? What should I do?
2006-11-03 12:56:55 · 16 answers · asked by slaphappy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i give up!
2006-11-03 16:44:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm, that is curious.. (Somebody's gonna tell you it is 'hormonal..'.. or 'seasonal' that sorta stuff.. ) but I am thinking something else is going on here. Love's weird.. (yeah, she probably does love ya.. ya sure you wanna break up with her?) By back out, I guess you mean bust up with her? I think some girls are scared a bit by being 'in love..' They don't wanna get hurt.. (I know..you don't either..) Well, try this.. First you are saying "I love you" and then there must be some line or lines you are adding on that don't sound like you sincerely DO love her. (Do you? You don't come across to me like ya do either, frankly.. I mean first thing you talk about is how you wanna 'back out with her' ) You don't say 'I love this girl and wish she'd come around' do ya? (see my point?) you want to break up with her, right or not? I think you are kinda looking for reasons to do so so mayyybe she IS right to kind of come off looking like a b*tch.. She knows ya wanna bust up with her, man.. I guess my advice is just sit down calmly with her and say 'it's over' and expect the waterworks, unfortunately. (Better luck next time..)
2006-11-03 13:02:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if she knew that you were going to ask her back out why didn't you , that was kind of a jerk thing to do . It is like you built up the anticipation and then just slapped her down. iwould be pissed too. You probably hurt her feelings
2006-11-03 13:02:06 · answer #3 · answered by carolianian85 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-03 06:21:09 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how you guys put up with us. Girls have to be the center of attention and they are moody and dramatic. Not all girls are like that. I think I have more of a guy's attitude.
Tell her to quit the dramatics or hit the bricks.
2006-11-03 13:02:35 · answer #5 · answered by lion75 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she likes u alot and is upset because u don't show her that u feel the same way.Just my opinion.I mean who am I but someone that has been around forever and has seen this before,.Good luck
2006-11-03 13:02:27 · answer #6 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find that delicate balance of being "not nice" but also not "too mean" . Women seem to thrive on that "jerk like quality"
2006-11-03 13:00:53 · answer #7 · answered by Jason M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because somebody they feed off of the rejected souls of men served cold.
2006-11-03 13:01:04 · answer #8 · answered by Tiana D 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's upset with you because she's expecting you to ask her out again and waiting for you and you didn't do it. So, she might be wondering what is going on in your mind and why haven't you asked her out. That's my guess.
2006-11-03 13:05:49 · answer #9 · answered by pink lady 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
its the time of the m
2006-11-03 12:59:53 · answer #10 · answered by ivan_c 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Chics are like cats. Get used to it dude
2006-11-03 12:59:27 · answer #11 · answered by Foss 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋