i have a bf and i think that he is gay what should i do?

Question

i found pics/videos of naked guys in his room while he went to the bathroom.i asked him about it,but he didnt really say anything...i mean he kinda changed the subject.what should i do?

Answer 1

Well straight men do not have pictures of other men naked. so he must be bi-sexual or tri-sexual, he will try anything once.
What should you do? Hmm, well you can either deal with it if you dont see a problem being with a man that goes both ways. Or you can leave him alone and move on. Personally, I would not want to share my man with another woman or another man. Good luck and God bless

Answer 2

Um .... ok persons .... she says he's sixteen years previous. a greater physically powerful threat is there that he replaced into basically being a sixteen 3 hundred and sixty 5 days previous boy and replaced into curious. i've got seen men his age bypass to violent dying websites (because of the fact they have been into gorey crap and it relatively is morbid and so are youngsters, regularly) .. regardless of if it did no longer lead them to a serial killer. a youthful male might bypass to a gay internet website for greater than a number of motives ... which contain to earnings the human form in an inventive way different than to oogle gay adult men. lol c'mon ... this guy could be a superbly popular curious youthful male. If he's have been given a girl pal at sixteen years previous, i could be keen to guess this is the case because of the fact an horrific lot of gay men don't have girlfriends at sixteen .. they're too busy the two being gay .. or protecting it up with a million different issues. My question is, does your relationship look severe or do you get approximately 4 minutes of his time and none of his interest? And my different question could be ... why are you asking a team of persons who do no longer understand your guy to make a judgement call on him ... once you do understand him? human beings can make it easier to realize "Oh yeah, he's deffinately gay" .. after which you would be able to ruin up .. after which you will locate him with the prettiest female in college a week later because of the fact you broke his coronary heart and she or he fastened it for him. Ask him. and don't be a snot approximately it. If he's ... so what? it relatively is not like gay is the worst situation interior the worldwide. sturdy success hon .. to the two one in all you. :)

Answer 3

Have you kissed him? Was he doing anything he could to try to make excuses not to kiss you? Have you tried getting close to him physically, yet all he would do is hug you. Try to add all of this up in your mind and, together with what the video's you noticed in his bathroom, you'll have a better idea if perhaps he may be homosexual. Honey, I had the same issue as you when i was 19 years old. The guy wouldn't kiss me, and yet...I felt so hurt because he "acted" as though he was my boyfriend. He wasn't ready to come "out" yet, and so I suffered the consequences of not really knowing whether he was gay or not. Eventually, I got so hurt & angry, that I yelled out to him in front of his co-workers, "Why don't you just admit you are gay!" (which wasn't very nice of me at all). We broke up. Years later, I found out he in fact IS gay. I was relieved to know that it was nothing personal that he wouldn't kiss me. Listen, I went about the whole thing incorrectly. You should make an assessment of his behavior toward you, think about how you're going to approach him in a quiet/confidential setting, and ask him in a gentle way, "Do you prefer men rather than women. I need to know, because I have feelings for you, and I am really hurting inside."
He may not answer you (and he may, in fact deny it...so be prepared...particularly if he isn't ready to be "out" yet). I'm hoping he will answer you. Either way, use your gut instict. If you are not getting the appropriate love and affection from your "boyfriend", then he may not be the one for you.

Answer 4

Just be happy! As long as he screws you whats the problem here? He likes to go shopping with you? He like to decorate his room in pastels and talk with a lisp? You got the best of everything and maybe he'll let you bring a dude home for some added fun some nights!

Answer 5

well if he has naked guy pics in his room then that takes the cake. also not talkin bout is a high chance he "might"be gay or bi and so then go with it if u love or like him then go on but if u find out he is gay then don worry there will be plenty more fish in the sea. hope this helped

Answer 6

Tell him you are interested in a 3some and you were wondering if he would like it to be with another girl or another guy. Then just take it from there when he answers. Make sure you are nonchalant about it, like you don't care if he says male or female. If he is bi, well deal with it. If he is gay, cut your losses and move on. Ask him if you are his cover story so his buddies don't catch on; if you don't want to use the 3some thing.

Answer 7

i was told you could tell if a guy was gay by dropping something on the floor and ask him to pick it up... if he squats to pick it up you're ok... if he bends over then that means that he likes to bend over and take it!! lol! anyway, i think you need to talk to him about it, tell him that he needs to answer you straight up and if he tries to dodge the question then give him an ultimatum. i mean you just have to make him answer you! good luck! have a great weekend!!!

Answer 8

First of all, why were you snooping in his things? You found out something that maybe you don't want to know. That's what you get for being snoopy! Having said that, if you asked him point blank and he didn't want to answer he's hiding something.

Answer 9

Ask to use his computer in some obvious situation and when he's not looking, look at his history by typing in Ctrl H and if he's been on gay or porn sites. Then if you wanna help him, find him help.

Answer 10

just because a guy has porn (with naked guys) in his room that doesn't make him gay. (on the same page as women who like to watch porn with other women in it....doesn't make them lesbians.) Just have fun....if he needs support then give him that.