but is very poor and insisted on coming to your home.Would you invite her there?Every time i give her something she has to give me something in return.She asked me about my mortage payment and i told her it was 20 yrs.i did not tell her my house is paid for.Does she sound like a golddigger or someone who wants a man who is secure and not broke yet?
2006-11-03 12:42:13 · 10 answers · asked by joejoe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Women get just as many men gold-digger/freeloader men as men get goldigger women. She is probably seeing if you are worth her time, she doesn't want to support you and it sounds like she doesn't expect you to support her. Maybe her questions are to see if you are living beyond your means and therefore would be leaning on her financially.
2006-11-03 12:46:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No she doesn't seem like a gold digger.
She seems motivated and might want nice things for herself.
If you give someting to her and she keeps evening things out , its her way of letting you know Money isn't her priority, and she has pride, she is saying I am independant and caring, and can hold my own.
And by evening things out she is showing you that she feels fair is fair.
If she were a gold digger she would have gotten you by now.
A gold digger wouldn't clean your house, or return a favor.
A gold digger takes and takes.and is not satisfied, with anything you might give her.
Just because a woman asks you how m much a mortgage payment is doesn't mean she is after your house , it shows she desires a better life, and she is seeing if she can work it into her budget.
If you need more advise ask me , I'd be glad to help.
Oh and FYI- If you ask a Woman out We still expect the Man to Pay- Any man who asks for dutch just isn't a real man!
Most woman would agree, but if you've been dating and the money is tight , for both that sharing is ok. And most women will offer to share. But in this instance as you said she is poor mabey you could invite her to cook dinner at your home after dating her for a while, its nice and many women enjoy that aswell.
Flowers are always a nice touch.
Good Luck
Meg
Kovasmomma@yahoo.com
2006-11-03 20:55:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The way she feels compelled to give you something in return suggests that she likes, you but is aware of the social differences.
She maybe feels a bit bad for being poor, but is trying to keep her pride.
Maybe her place is a dump, and she doesn't want to have you see her living that way.
I'd say she likes you, but doesn't want to seem like a golddigger
Give it some time.
2006-11-03 20:48:51 · answer #3 · answered by somebody cares 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful. Take time to get to know her. Maybe you should meet somewhere other than your house. It's no body's business how much your mortgage payment is.
2006-11-03 20:45:02 · answer #4 · answered by RockwallCat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a big boy. If you need help cleaning invite her to help and see what happens. If you are not interested, make that clear.
2006-11-03 20:56:27 · answer #5 · answered by crct2004 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u are reading into too much..did a woman want u for your money bf,,,or something..way too parniod not everyone is just looking for someone with money,,even if she is poor that doesnt mean shes a gold digger..
2006-11-03 20:46:04 · answer #6 · answered by chas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would invite her and find out more about her. She might be a perfectly nice person.
2006-11-03 20:45:46 · answer #7 · answered by Marti M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on that womans age
2006-11-03 20:46:12 · answer #8 · answered by kyle s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds a bit sceatchy.....
2006-11-03 20:44:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would invite her in ...
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2006-11-03 20:43:24 · answer #10 · answered by c g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋