i dont have a partner right now so please dont give me advise...im just curious as im sure loads of people do have cyber sexor serious flirtations with people online that are married or have g/f or b/f...what are your opinions?
2006-11-03 12:34:09 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
kacie nichole...there really is no need to be so uppity ...you dont know me and this is a perfectly reasonable question...so dont be so sanctimonious and rude!!! ;0)
2006-11-03 14:09:52 · update #1
ok people...i am just curious here,lol...its a hard one actually...i dont actually have the same concept of a relationship as many of you might...im all for allowing a person to be who they are and do what they need to do...ive been in that restrictive kind of relationship where rules about cheating and stuff at the end of the day mean diddly squat...whats it called...oh yeah,marriage,lol...and no he didnt cheat on me...i just dont get that whole own someone thing...to me if its good you dont want to and if you do then its probably because you need something else...im just wondering..if people get so hot under the collar about cheating which they do...is it better to 'mentally cheat' but not physically cheat or is it more insulting to the offended party because its not even a real and physical thing,tangible so to speak...
2006-11-03 23:17:48 · update #2
im single at the mo+hav done the whole cyber sex-flirting thing its good fun+harmless+i dont even consider weather they hav a gf or wife as thats their business but on the flip side 2 that i would never do it if i had a partner+i wouldnt accept them doing it as i consider it cheating on a mental level
2006-11-03 23:54:35 · answer #1 · answered by Nellynoo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oooh.......seems like I'm going against the grain a bit here. Everyone seems to think its wrong. I'm always cyber-flirting but I have to say my 14 year relationship is as strong as ever. I can't see any harm in basically just "chatting", nothing physical is going to come out of it. The downside is that I was "cyber-stalked" by someone who just wouldn't leave me alone, ha ha ha!!! had to change my id!!!
After your addition, she, let me add a little something. I don't think I'd be capable of physically "cheating" on a partner, not because of this whole ownership thing, but because I'd be eaten alive with guilt. Does that sound silly?
2006-11-03 19:57:13 · answer #2 · answered by Warlock Fiend 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
About ten years ago, when all this internet thing was quite new to me, a friend of mine showed me all his (ahem) 'flirtations' he'd been having with a married woman, and showed me these things called 'chat rooms' he frequently visited...and all the while his girlfriend was in the kitchen making him dinner...I was a 'bit' uncomfortable to say the least...So I think the answer to your question is, without a shadow of a doubt, 'yes'.
PS Of course if you're single, and you're flirting/cybersexing with someone else who's single, then I don't think there's anything wrong with it....whatever floats your boat...
2006-11-03 12:46:10 · answer #3 · answered by Snowth 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your partner knows you sometimeschat on line no worries. But tomethere is a difference betwen chat....and flirt ....and cyber sex.
the firstwould be ok, the second ok but could lead to more....unwittingly perhaps and the third if you are in a relationship is betrayal to your partner.
2006-11-03 21:38:41 · answer #4 · answered by eagledreams 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think there's any harm in flirting online if you dont have a partner,so long as the person you are flirting with doesn't have a partner too..Its not right to flirt with someone who as got a partner
2006-11-03 20:45:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
online dating, flirting cyber sex. is cheating, its no different from sending a love letter to a female admirer. all in all its wrong. i would'nt do it even as a play act, but i don't judge people who do it who are in relationships or condone it personally.
2006-11-03 13:14:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it incredibly is delusion Island time as I see it. i hit upon it to be stimulating and as long because it maintains to be non-actual & in basic terms in each and each others minds i do no longer evaluate it dishonest. I on no account theory-approximately it as being revengeful. My Philosophy is "get exhilaration from existence - it incredibly is a one time journey - hit upon what you experience mushy with and don't permit every physique permit you know distinctive."
2016-10-21 05:37:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats wrong about doing it for real ? No its just messing around and isent cheating at all .
2006-11-03 13:57:38 · answer #8 · answered by badass-mofu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just as bad as cheating physically. By that point, you are already checked out of the relationship. =/
2006-11-03 12:39:36 · answer #9 · answered by flyingmonkey022 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
yes I think its wrong. I would rather my spouse come to me and we can do what he wants. I do not want him to have thoughts of some one else in his mind I do not care if that person is touching him or hes doing it to him self. I should be us together
2006-11-03 12:44:04 · answer #10 · answered by christine z 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋