How to gain lost trust in girl friend?

Question

i have 2.5 years of relationship with my girl friend, during this we also have physical relationship and we had a engagement with permission of our parents.Everything was find we were about to get married 4months back. Some how we had a aurgument over the phone were she abuse my parents and i reacted n same way. Later she started thinking that i belive she had relationship with someone else other than me, which i knew was not true.I tryed her contacting many time which she decline we have few converstaion over the phone she use to speak nicely for few days saying i need time to think and after two or three she use to change mind or stop commnicating not taking call or zero converstaion. Few days when i spoke to her she said i dont trust you as before so stop troubling me again? Can anyone help in how to slove this problem.

Answer 1

The fact is both of you have overreacted.

Anyway coming to the solution, you need to find out if she still loves you. If she does then swallow your dayem pride and go to her and apologize. Remember just because she said something bad about your parents doesn't guarantee you to "dish it out" in same breath. Take the high road and tell her "That's not fair, lets leave them out of this".

If there is no love in her for you, then my friend there is nothing you can do to bring it back, though I seriously doubt this.

The only way to do this is to ask a good friend to talk to her. This friend should be very delicate and SHOULD NOT defend you. Because that friend's only mission is to find out if she still loves you and that's it. So preferably talk to her best friend and ask him/her to be the Messenger...

.:Fishie:.