My boyfriend didn't go ice skating with one of my friends because i didn't go but should I feel bad because it's my fault or should I be happy? I don't know eather was I'm still going to be happy but i want to know you're opions... I"m on the phone with him right now so I know he's not mad at me...
2006-11-03 12:31:14 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm only 13 so this means a lot to me.
2006-11-03 12:37:16 · update #1
I think that you should be happy. He sounds like a nice guy!
2006-11-03 12:33:29 · answer #1 · answered by beckinvegas 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How do you feel? That is the question you should be asking. We can't decide if it is your fault or just a sweet thing that your boyfriend did. If you want my opinion, though, I would say that it is partially your fault because you didn't go, but it is also partly your boyfriend's sweetness because he possibly didn't want you to think he was hitting on your friend or something (LOL I know you are probably saying,, "Yeah, right, like he would do that!", but STILL, or maybe he just didn't want you to feel left out. You never know what guys are thinking. But this is just my opinion. It is your choice whether you feel thankful, bad, depressed, or happy-go-lucky. You choose your own feelings, not us. :)
2006-11-03 20:39:13 · answer #2 · answered by Angel.. Oreo Cookie.. xD 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The question is not how you should feel. The question is how did you feel, and why did you feel that way. Don't try to live you life based upon how others say you should feel or shouldn't feel. You are your own person, and you shouldn't live your life based upon how others think you should feel in a given situation.
2006-11-03 20:35:33 · answer #3 · answered by rec 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it was a sweet thing. He should give some things up for you, but dont ask too much or too often. He still needs to live his life with his friends.
2006-11-03 20:33:24 · answer #4 · answered by Eugene 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So, you're happy he didn't go without you? But you feel bad that he missed out on the fun?
2006-11-03 20:33:27 · answer #5 · answered by czekoskwigel 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's sweet, he'd prefer to spend his time with you, than one of his friends (if I interpreted things correctly). OR maybe he didnt feel comfortable going out with your friend without you. It's ok, it's sweet, he wouldn't have enough fun without you!
2006-11-03 20:34:27 · answer #6 · answered by idk 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be happy.
But don't pressure him, if you put pressure on him not to go then you're not right.
If he chose not to go, w/o pressure from you, be happy
You have a nice boyfriend
Nice boyfriends are hard to find
2006-11-03 20:34:51 · answer #7 · answered by somebody cares 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He loves you and wants to show you that he'd rather be spending time with you. It's not your fault.
2006-11-03 20:34:29 · answer #8 · answered by Nemo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think its sweet that he is like that but perhaps he should know that u wont get mad if he goes out with friends
2006-11-03 20:33:03 · answer #9 · answered by buck_wonderz 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel bad if it's one of YOUR friends.
That means he'd probably feel more comfortable hanging out with your friends.. WITH YOU THERE ALSO. So that is sweet.
But if it was one of his friends.. then he should go.
2006-11-03 20:43:31 · answer #10 · answered by flyingmonkey022 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋