cheting on the one you love it brings alot of pain in your life its never the same agian
2006-11-03 12:28:32 · 13 answers · asked by donna s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He will never trust you again, but can get over the pain if you help him. Tell him it wasn;t his fault, give him everything in the divorce and help line him up with a cute girlfriend. That should relieve your guilt.
2006-11-03 12:33:42 · answer #1 · answered by Foss 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
donna s: Cheating on or at anything is a violation of TRUST. Once trust is violated, it is very, very difficult to reinstate. You will have to live your life differently now, to even, attempt to have your husband trust you. That means, NEVER being alone where other men are around, not staring at guys, not reading or watching books or movies with reference to guys or affairs. It is a LONG walk up-hill ! Never bring it up to your husband. You always have to be aware, that your husband can use this as an excuse for himself running around with stray women. Your marriage is now, under fire because of your wrong choice to get layed by another guy - right? The future of your marriage now, depends on how you are as a person.
2006-11-03 12:43:27 · answer #2 · answered by guraqt2me 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's going to be a long uphill battle. SOme people make it and some don't. I suggest you try counseling because have a mediator is helpful and underlying issues will be addressed. Good Luck.
2006-11-03 12:33:11 · answer #3 · answered by jazzman6812 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You go back to the school you dropped out of and learn to spell then stop doing other dumb things like cheating.
Sometimes the hurt and pain never goes away. It's all up to him to see if he will forgive you.
You need to sincerely apologize and hope he forgives and forgets.
2006-11-03 12:32:17 · answer #4 · answered by MisterO 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
become best friends and be honest about everything. it's obvious you've learned from your mistake, so i know this will make you, your husband, and your marriage stronger when you have come through this. it will take a long time, but it's worth it. love is not something to be tossed away, so just keep working on it. best friends first and always.
2006-11-03 12:34:27 · answer #5 · answered by disciple1987 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ive been burned and tried to give it a second try, but it was always in the back of my mind. i finally let go when i moved onto someone else. i tried, but once it happened the trust was gone
2006-11-03 12:34:22 · answer #6 · answered by ScoRpiO21 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if i'm your husband - just confess what you've done wrong
and not doing that again. MY LOVE will overcome everything and i know
its hard but i think i can do that coz my LOVE plus my vow.
my wife cheat on me but without confess and
she's thinking i'm the 1 who's wrong.
she's hurt my heart plus my 2 kids.
2006-11-03 12:37:15 · answer #7 · answered by peter71 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First you use the spell check option. Then you accept that you may never be forgiven or trusted again.
2006-11-03 12:32:06 · answer #8 · answered by goaliegirl 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
#1-spell check rules!
#2-you screwed up. I could never trust someone who cheated on me. suck it up, and if you're serious, get some marriage counseling.
2006-11-03 12:32:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you wanted his trust you shouldn't have cheated. You screwed this up for yourself, so quit complaining.
2006-11-03 12:33:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋