I have known a man for 10 years. 5 years ago, I let my irish temper get the best of me and I called it off between us. I rushed into a marriage I later found out was abusive, and he was there for me. Everything is planned out now, but I have some questions. What does it really mean when a man says "No matter who you marry, you'll always belong to me?" What does it mean, upon seeing your children and spoiling them rotten, when he says, in a good sort of sad way and not a bad one "They should have been from me. But you dumped me". What does it mean when you are talking, and the man says he wants more children in the future? Especially when you have to work hard most of the time to get his feelings out in the first place? What does it mean when he says he never thinks anything badly of you and that just a look from you "drives him nuts" and he can't resist kissing you? Is this just talk, or is it real since he didn't try anything in the beginning?
2006-11-03 12:13:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He wants a piece. He knows you'll dump him all over again . He's lying to get a little action and doen;t respect you
2006-11-03 12:18:52 · answer #1 · answered by Foss 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's important to know why you dumped him 5 years ago. From the words he used "you'll always belong to me,' I would venture to guess that he's possessive. Nobody 'belongs' to anybody--we are independent and individual. When he mentioned "But you dumped me," it sounded like underlying anger and it has been with him for a long time, obviously. I'm not sure about the children part where 'they should have been from me,' but I think that if i truly loved you, rather than getting my ego involved with what may be jealousy, I would have said "they should have been from us.' Do you see what I mean? He sounds kind of egocentric and excludes you in the equation. Be very observant and good luck
2006-11-03 20:22:50 · answer #2 · answered by heyrobo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well... He does sound like a great guy, and most likely he doesn't want to lose you again. It sounds as if he really wanted to be the one who was in your life, and knew you were special from day one. Even though you let your irish temper take over, (by the looks of it) he has forgiven it. Right now, it is mainly up to you if you want to be with him. Is it worth it? If you ask me, yes. Things could really work out well with him.
I hope things do work out well.
2006-11-03 20:23:14 · answer #3 · answered by wizard of stealth 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He thinks he owns a special part of your soul. Does he?
2006-11-03 20:17:03 · answer #4 · answered by Axeman 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your ex really cares for you and wants to be with you someday
2006-11-03 20:16:46 · answer #5 · answered by Billy T 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's regret from his not making a move and from you moving on
2006-11-03 20:16:08 · answer #6 · answered by RivatricHistrionic 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋