a relationship. He is the nicest person but thinks he is a loser?
2006-11-03 12:09:24 · 17 answers · asked by andreea m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
take it slow and no pressure just be friends
2006-11-03 12:10:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all you have got to show him why he isnt a loser. Let him see all of the wonderful things that you see in him. Tell him why you think he isnt a loser. You have a great chance to be a very positive impact in his life. Get him to open up to you and to talk to you as his soulmate. Once he lets all the garbage out you will be able to reach his heart and you can help him to believe in himself again. The key helping people change is love and communication. These 2 things can move mountains
2006-11-03 20:15:18 · answer #2 · answered by virgin 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You got to prove to him that you are the rite person and that you wount hurt him...make him feel like he isnt a loser..tell him wht you think about him...and man if you hurt him...i can see y he wouldnt want to have a relationship...good luck and tell him before its to late
2006-11-03 20:12:25 · answer #3 · answered by Cutie101 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to him and let him know he's not a loser. Sometimes people need to hear this stuff from someone new, that way they realize they're not losers. Just be patient with him and stick around and he'll come around.
2006-11-03 20:13:42 · answer #4 · answered by grrlstarr79 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would keep reassuring him and telling him that he isnt a loser and that hes a nice person. I probably also would send him things to show him that hes not a loser, and that you like him.
2006-11-03 20:16:07 · answer #5 · answered by Tweetalette 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he needs to grow and also work on his self-esteem. you may have caught him at a bad point in his life, but there may not be much you can do about it. on the other hand, it could also be that he's giving you an excuse--we guys are experts at that--and just doesn't want to hurt your feelings. i suspect the esteem issue is the correct one however. good luck. maybe with time, he'll grow up
2006-11-03 20:13:19 · answer #6 · answered by heyrobo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I say that you just give him time, he will come around.
If you really care about him just give him time....you have to understand that some of us females can be really cruel to men....and well i dont blame the some guys dont want to be with no one because they are afraid to be hurt once again....i have been there and again and again and again....so i know where he is coming from
2006-11-03 20:19:48 · answer #7 · answered by Sweet Momma 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What a sissy.
Look for someone else.
You don't want a guy that's more sensitive than you right ?
What if you 2 ever get held up or something
a guy like that cant protect you
he will be the one crying and hiding behind you. Lmao
2006-11-03 20:14:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Most nice guys think they are losers. It's up to you to convince him he's not. Or is it? Maybe he's got emotional issues or depression and needs professional help. Or just get him drunk.
2006-11-03 20:13:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
then cheer him the f up
your a girl hes a guy (those two words go together)
give him a hug
2006-11-03 20:11:41 · answer #10 · answered by eddie k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for the friends with benifits. Then it'll come along.
2006-11-03 20:12:05 · answer #11 · answered by Jason M 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋