You relly like him but he doesn't really like you in that kind of way...
2006-11-03 12:02:38 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi there. Tell him a joke....show him you have a sense of humor. That's a great way to get him interested.
Find out His interests from friends...and do some homework and research. Of course, this is quite a commitment it depends on how much you want him.
remember challenges are fun...don't give up too easily. good luck :)
2006-11-06 03:37:37 · answer #1 · answered by Tabor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, my. That "stop breathing when he's near" feeling. Can be fun, but definitely more fun when it's mutual.
Sigh. Sorry to say, there is no way to make anybody do/say/think anything, and no way to make anybody like you. If you know he doesn't like you in that way, then you're best off just enjoying him as a friend, getting to know him on that basis, and getting to know some other guys, too.
Here's the thing -- this may all change. He may change his mind. Thing is, you can't make it happen, or even predict when, or if, it will. What you can do is get to know him as a person, enjoy him for who he is, and that way, even if he never does look at you with stars in his eyes (or by the time he does, your interest is elsewhere, which also happens), you still have a good friend, and you can't have too many of those.
Whatever it is that you guys enjoy doing together, whatever mutual interests you have, why not pursue those and meet other people who like the same things? One of them might just make your heart decide that Boy A is a really good friend, but Boy B is something special.
And in the meantime, at least you'll be having fun and getting to know Boy A better. Good luck!
2006-11-03 20:08:04 · answer #2 · answered by peculiarpup 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT SHOW UR FEELING!!!
i'm sure many ppl would tell u to confess to him or sumthin..
if u want himt o like u back.. u should pretend that u dont like him.. then from time to time... hint that u like him..
that'll make to think about u more and the next thing u know..
he'll be thinking bout ya day and night..
men are pathetic creature.. they wont appreciate what they have.. and do anythin for thing they cant have..
2006-11-03 20:09:22 · answer #3 · answered by suki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, screw the people who say "pretend you don't like him." If a girl doesn't show me she likes me, I'll assume she doesn't and I won't try for her even if I like her too. I agree with the idea that you can't make anyone like you, but at least make him aware you like him. If you pretend you don't, he may assume you're not interested. Especially if you talk to other boys. Then he definitely won't like you.
2006-11-03 20:25:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I am about to say something you may not like to hear, so be forewarned.
You cannot MAKE anybody like you -- it is impossible, so don't try.
The only thing you CAN do is to be yourself -- do not try to be someone else to please others or to "get that hunky dreamboat." You'll just make yourself miserable in the end.
If you just be yourself, then someone who likes you for who you are (and not what you can do for them) will discover you eventually.
2006-11-03 20:08:50 · answer #5 · answered by calledkevinalot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing trust me. I know. And seducing him won't help, you'll get him for awhile, but then he'll be gone, leaving you to cry yourself to sleep. Nothing can make someone stay if their heart isn't into it. Try to be a friend to him, and maintain you own interests
2006-11-03 20:06:55 · answer #6 · answered by somebody cares 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give up and move on. People always like you more when they think you don't care. But if he's not interested maybe you need to find someone worth your time.
2006-11-03 20:06:54 · answer #7 · answered by LaLa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im in the same case as you are and you should honestly move on..cause think how many guys are out there and you mite say well none are like this special guy but believe me there is someone out there ment for you..someone somewhere..he could be called "mr.right" and ovously this guy isnt rite for you so move on its best i think..
2006-11-03 20:05:55 · answer #8 · answered by Cutie101 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id just be yourself around a guy and act natural maybe flirt a little. but remeber no guy likes a showoff. i learned that the hard way.
well good luck!
2006-11-03 20:05:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes.....it's just the way it is. If you have to chane yourself completely for someone to like you...then it's not going to last anyway. I'm sure you will find someone who loves you for just the way you are.
2006-11-03 20:04:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋