okay well there used to be a guy that bugged me all the time. make fun of me follow me, recently come to my house and call me and stuff. i thot he was so mean but i ends up he liked me....i told him to piss off because i was mad...but now he wont even talk to me.
i told my friend to tell him im sorry that i hung up on him and slammed a door in his face, but he still wont talk. i cudve liked this guy...actually. and now ive screwed everything up........wat can i do???!!!!!!
2006-11-03 11:54:56 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
come is spelled wrong...i am aware
2006-11-03 11:56:41 · update #1
approach him yourself and apologise for your behaviour face to face......i think that would be best....as he will know that you are geniune
2006-11-03 11:56:39 · answer #1 · answered by askaway 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tiffany: when you told him to p*** off , did you do it in front of others? If you have, you embarrassed the poor guy. This is a no-no ... no guy nor girl should bad-mouth anyone in front of others.
Yes; you made a dumb mistake ( we all say and do dumb things at times) due to a lack of thinking before speaking. The onus is on YOU to apologize and make amends. Send him a small Teddy Bear with an "I'm Sorry" note pinned onto it. (You might list your telephone number and ask him to call you). Isn't it strange that we seem to hurt the one we really love ? Remember; you have to be sincere with him. I'm a guy, and when I got hurt from any girl by a bad off-the-cuff comment - it shattered me. ( Maybe an ego thing - I guess) . Learn from this lesson and all the very best to you !
2006-11-03 20:09:44 · answer #2 · answered by guraqt2me 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He is probable a fun guy and didn't know he was (or mean to) hurting your feelings. Get in his face when you can get him alone and tear him up one side and then down the other. Then laugh your *** off while he looks confused, then you two can move on on even ground.
2006-11-03 19:59:30 · answer #3 · answered by Jason M 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You win some and you lose some. Now you know that you shouldn't use other people as messengers and you shouldn't be rude.
You can try sending him an email/text message or calling him. But if he doesn't respond there's nothing you can do.
2006-11-03 19:57:46 · answer #4 · answered by Bookworm 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ouch... don't have your friend do what you need to do yourself.
If you are truly sorry, go see him, apologize in a private place and see if you can ask him if you can 'start over'.
Maybe go for a walk and invest some one-on-one time... see how it goes from there.
2006-11-03 19:57:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i agree 100% with askaway
2006-11-03 19:57:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋