ok, she is the oldest of us 3 and ahe gets to go eveywhere with my aunt and uncle and it bothers me!! because my aunt says she wants to spend more time with us but she nevers asks us to go anywhere(exept my older sisiter)and she says she wants us to mess with the horses. but the only thing she does with them is get really mad at them cause shes weird like that!! for example my birthday was in june and she was leaving for a horse trip on my birtday and i thought she was gonna take me for a birthday present but no she took my older sister, but at least i got to go to silver dollar city!! another example is that my sister had mono(a diese that if she fell she would bleed internally and die)and she was supposed to stay hame for two months, but that didnt stop my aunt from taking her to arkansas for 2 weeks!! GRRRRRRR my life is a mess if u can help me with this problem email me at kortnie_savannah@yahoo.com tanx
2006-11-03 11:40:57 · 7 answers · asked by kortnie_cowgirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
The way you talk about your aunt -- I wouldn't want to go.
And, another thing -- a little maturity on your part would help your situation. Find something fun to do and quit worrying about it.
2006-11-03 11:44:08 · answer #1 · answered by JB 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's see... someone says she wants to spend more time with you, but doesn't, and does spend time with your older sister...
I know it can hurt when a family member plays favorites. Here's all I can think of...
> first off, why not invite your aunt to do something with you? Tell her you want to get to know her better, so could the two of you do something alone? She might say "no," but then again, she might say "yes."
Just go to lunch, or coffee, and show an interest in her. Ask about her life and listen to what she says. Most people want to be interesting to other people. If you're primarily seeing her as the aunt who takes your sister places and not you, that's not much of a personal relationship. At least if you ask, then you know you tried.
> If she says "no," then... sigh. You accept that she and your sister have a special relationship, and you develop other relationships of your own, friends, other family members, etc. so that you have plenty to do and people who like you, and whether your aunt does or not isn't so important any more.
Reach out to other people around you, and make relationships for yourself that don't include your sister, so you don't have to feel in competition with her. Good luck!
2006-11-03 12:33:07 · answer #2 · answered by peculiarpup 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What u have is to long to read sorry.Talk this out with your parents and your Aunt and Uncle. They are the ones u should be telling this to.I wish u all the luck.
2006-11-03 11:44:20 · answer #3 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. SHE'S OLDER THAN YOU, get over it
2. you don't bleed internally if you fall with mono, it's emophiliea, get that straight
3. there are ALOT more ppl with worse lives than that!!!!!!!!!!!
4. YOUR life is a mess? What about the ppl in Africa, STARVING TO DEATH. ' oh i didn't get to go to Arkansas ' get over it!!!!! >_<
2006-11-03 11:45:24 · answer #4 · answered by iMegan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She gets to do more because she's older. Welcome to life. And your life is NOT a mess. Come live mine for a while and tell me how bad yours is.
Wish I was a kid again. Things were alot simpler.
2006-11-03 12:03:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she gets 2 do more because she is older and the older you get the more stuff you can do.
2006-11-03 11:46:12 · answer #6 · answered by AJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well why not talk to your aunt and tell her how you feel..
2006-11-03 11:42:44 · answer #7 · answered by goodlookin.mama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋