Advice????

Question

i need advice on how to talk to a guy because im very shy and quiet

Answer 1

my friends and i had this same problem.
well the best conversation starter, i think, is start out by saying hello. from then you could ask him how his weekend was. you can then find out what he's into. don't ask how his weekend was if it's not a monday. if it isn't, find out what he likes to do or ask him if he's seen a new movie and how he liked it and then give your opinion. but remember, it's going to take time. and i'm assuming that you like this guy. or an alternative: with my friends, i told them to make an effort to say a 2 sylables to this person, adding two each day. eventually you'll start up a whole conversation from there and who knows....romance in the future?

Answer 2

Sweetie, you can start by saying hi to them. then if you have a class or something with this guy ask him about the homework. then you can actually start a conversation! Also you can sort of act a little helpless like you didn't understand the homework and ect. Trust me! I'm like an really outgoing person and flirts like crazy when i'm around guys. but then on the other hand my best friend she will never open up her mouth around guys! But you can try at least say hi or something kind of greeting.

Answer 3

just be a friend. if something is funny, comment on it. just get to know the guy and hang out. if you're interested in him, start by just being a friend. ask questions, get to know him, but don't be the only one making the effort. let him ask questions about you and get to know you, too. if he's interested in you, you'll be getting to know each other as friends first, which is the healthy way to go. if he's not interested, then you may have a new friend. :)

Answer 4

if ya got a class wit him then ask him about the home work
later ask to be parners in a project and work ya way up