I'm trying to figure out if a guy has feelings for me or is only interested in sex. Last night we made out for two hours. Really passionate making out. He was very turned on. He wanted to have sex but I stopped because I didn't want to be slutty and I don't want to have sex with him if he is only interested in sex. So if he made out with me for two hours do you think he probably has feelings for me and is interested in a relationship or is he possibly only interested in sex?
2006-11-03 11:38:02 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sex and Love mean the same thing only if they are in combination with each other. Be careful with sexual excitement - it can be easily mistaken for real emotions, it's just a physical state. It doesn't only happen to guys either. It happened to me for a couple of relationships when i thought I was in love, it was just about great sex.
Bottom Line: No, it doesn't mean anything. Doesn't mean that he doesn't like you either. You need some time to figure this out.
~Good luck to yu and be careful~
2006-11-03 11:43:53 · answer #1 · answered by Alexandra M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He would make out with you for 10 hours if he feels as if you are going to have sex with him, if he wanted to have when ya'll was making out then yes he is only interested in sex.
2006-11-03 19:41:37 · answer #2 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All men are interested in is sex. If you want to know if he really has feelings for you then you need to hang out more and talk before you go there with him.
2006-11-03 19:42:30 · answer #3 · answered by bunny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of coarse he wants sex but that doesn't mean he isn't interested.
You did the right thing because if he gets sex first he will never get to know the real you and have something to base a relationship on. Keep it from him for awhile see if he sticks around. If he doesn't than you have no regrets!
2006-11-03 19:43:25 · answer #4 · answered by girlio33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you are asking several questions here.
1) A guy can make out with a girl indefinetly even if he does not like her.
2) To find out if he only wants sex, just don't make out with him anymore and see what happens. Us words liek "we are rushing us" and "I want to build something here". If all he wants is a piece of @$$ that will make him run.
2006-11-03 19:41:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He absolutely, positively, just wanted to have sex with you. Otherwise he would have spent two hours getting to know you. Don't worry though, he won't be back, because he doesn't want to waste anymore time with you if you are not going to give out. Be thankful.
2006-11-03 19:41:38 · answer #6 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do things that don't involve sex. Dinner, out with friends, bowling. Just see how he is outside of the bedroom and if he's still interested. Then, if you really want, tell him you want to take things slow. Then you'll really know where his heart and mind is.
2006-11-03 19:41:03 · answer #7 · answered by imasooite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably had feelings for you at the moment, but I don't think he was interested in a long time relationship
2006-11-03 19:51:55 · answer #8 · answered by Bo V 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he only made out with you and not trying to grab you or nothin then you have a 75 to 25 percent he likes you and have feelins for you but if he was pushin to do it and still pushin you even after you said no than it sounds like he only wants sex
2006-11-03 19:42:49 · answer #9 · answered by erika 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
any guy will make out with a girl if he think he's gonna get some.. stop making out and start getting to know him and then and only then will u find out if he wants to be w/u or if he just wants some....
2006-11-03 19:41:05 · answer #10 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋