I have no idea what to do. My boyfriend and I barely get to see each other, and when we do *at school* he barely says anything to me. Every one says he just wants to have sex with me, but if that was the only reason he dates me then how come he hasn't tried to do anything with me yet? I have really fallen for this guy too. But it seems he would rather Hunt then come see me or hang out with me and my friends. Today I asked him if he wanted to come over tonite and he said yeah, but then I asked him a couple of minutes ago if he was still going to come and he said no he was going to get drunk with some friends. I know I need to break up with him and find someone else but I just can't bring myself to do that. Is there anything I can do so we can work things out?
2006-11-03 11:36:52 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I try to tell him how I feel but when I open my mouth to say it gibberish comes out!! *I can never say what I mean* I've always been told what to say and have never really thought for myself. And I'm trying to do that now, but now I just need some major advice. I've told him last nite that he will always have hunting but I won't always be here for him and he just said "If thats how you want it to be then what the *uck ever.
So that seemed to push a button...
2006-11-03 11:42:38 · update #1
Well when he and I first hooked up it was becaue he had seen my picture and begged my mom's friend to give him my number.. and just kind-of went from that. We broke up once but got back together. Before we broke up he use to always be affectionett but now I dont know what happend. He still txt me saying that he loves me but we just dont talk like we use to....
2006-11-03 11:46:43 · update #2
And when we first hooked up, he told me that he didn't want a girlfriend he never got to see. So I come up with alot of things to get us to see each other. *I mean last nite he came to a pageant i went to with me*
2006-11-03 11:48:20 · update #3
No, he has made his priorities clear and you AREN'T it. Break up.
2006-11-03 11:39:41 · answer #1 · answered by snddupree 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If a guy is not showing any interest in you, than he just may not be interested. If the case is that he is very busy with school and studying, that would be understandable....BUT if he has time to share with you and he'd rather be with his friends he is probably not ready for the type of relationship you are looking for. You should take some time and see if you are benefiting from this relationship. Then make your decission as to what you want to do.
2006-11-03 19:44:09 · answer #2 · answered by blu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't waste your time with a guy who just wants to sleep with you. you deserve so much better. remember that guys still need to hang out with their guy friends, but if he's not interested in maintaining a relationship with you in addition to that, it might be best to end it. having a boyfriend= having a relationship. it doesn't sound like there is much relationship in your situation, maybe just some interest in each other. the relationship is what it's all about.
2006-11-03 19:41:11 · answer #3 · answered by disciple1987 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hunting season isn't yhat long,you should understand he will want to make the most of it.Next time blow him off,and see how he likes it.Play alittle hard to get,if he doesn't put out a good effort,your friends are right ,then find anew boyfriend.
2006-11-03 19:44:14 · answer #4 · answered by Scott EThe anode rod inyour hwh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It won't work out when you barely get to see the guy, he more or less ignores you at school, and has better things to do (booze) than be with you.
You don't need to really break-up-- once you stop calling him, it'll end on it's own.
2006-11-03 19:39:17 · answer #5 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you had a friend in the same situation, what would you say to her? You would tell her that she can do better and deserves better!!!! Go with that. Don't you want to be with someone that is as into you as you are them? You really need to cut him out
2006-11-03 19:42:04 · answer #6 · answered by karen p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
darling if u know u should break up w/him then why r u asking us what u should do.. he doesnt' want u.. if he did he would spend time w/u, #2 if he wanted to be w/u then he would acknowledge u at home, outside, in school, in the store, or the corner or anywhere.. if u can't see that then u deserve a broken heart....
2006-11-03 19:39:52 · answer #7 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's not interested don't waste your time... sometimes we get caught up in 'why doesn't he' an lose sight of the fact that he doesn't - the very problem itself.
You sound young, go find a nice guy who is interested in spending time.
good luck
2006-11-03 19:40:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him a choice...one of the choices is to hang out with you the other is to get away from you if he does care he will pick the first one but ya kinda sound a little needy and he seems really immature
2006-11-03 19:41:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some friends and start hanging out with them, it will only be a while before he gets jelius and is running back to you
2006-11-03 19:40:46 · answer #10 · answered by shafferboston34 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't make somebody want to hang out with you....hate to say it but, you might want to really consider looking else where. There are plenty of guys who are looking for a good woman and when they get her they pay attention to her
2006-11-03 19:40:50 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋