my absolute best guy friend apparently REALLY likes me. I always kind of suspected it.. but i kind of ignored it. I honestly don't like him like that. At all. We're in the ninth grade. I actually really like one of his good friends. How can i handle this without losing a friendship with him? What is the best possible thing for me to do?
2006-11-03 11:30:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to decide, do you want more than friends, or nothing?
Because most likely the friendship is over when you reject him.
The best thing to do is whatever is best for you.
2006-11-03 11:33:51 · answer #1 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is a lot of situation like this among friendship..
all i can say is that if u dont tell him now.. ur problem will only grow bigger and bigger until one day u end up hating him for alway being there when u dont want him to or he getting tire of chasin after u and decide to give up on u it seem the more u cant have, the more u want it. this might end ur friendship with him because he might not bar to talk to u
2006-11-03 19:38:44 · answer #2 · answered by suki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wonder why u wouldnt feel the same towards someone who could mean more to u than the person u like. if u tell him that it would never work out between u two, then the guy you like which is his friend doesnt like u for doing that to him, who can you go to for help? just dont do anything stupid
2006-11-03 19:34:32 · answer #3 · answered by eddie k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you value his friendship and you feel that a relationship will only ruin it and you dont want to lose him as a friend.
2006-11-03 19:33:51 · answer #4 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you'll just have to tell him that you really like him, but not like that. Tell him you still want to be friends, but nothing more than that right now. Then, after that, the ball is in his court. It will be up to him to decide if he wants to still be friends or not.
2006-11-03 19:33:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him how awesome of a friend he is. And that you're not interested in him that way. But that you'll be there to help him find someone else he can crush on.
2006-11-03 19:31:45 · answer #6 · answered by imasooite 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he isn't pressing you, then leave it at that. No reason to confront it. If he is pressing, tell him that you are young and just don't want any serious relationships at this point. Tell him that you value his friendship.
2006-11-03 19:37:39 · answer #7 · answered by honiebyrd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pretty much you have to set them straight right away. It doesn't matter when you tell them because if their going to
remain your friend their going to no matter what. Only one way to find out though? Good Luck
2006-11-03 19:34:29 · answer #8 · answered by MedicineWoman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, im in that situation now, and i have tried everything!!! one of the only things that succeeded was me making him jelous and there fore making him think i liked another guy. In reaction he found someone else and is now blissfully happy
2006-11-03 19:33:09 · answer #9 · answered by Stefanie A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just act the same around him...there is no reason to blow him off if you dont like him, so just stay cool.
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2006-11-03 19:33:48 · answer #10 · answered by Channies_like_a_melody(: 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋