cause this guy i was going out with said he liked me alot and then one day he said he just wanted to be friends?? with no explanation!! what does that mean??ok i mean i didnt see it coming!! cause the day before we went to a school dance and we held hands and slow danced and then boom he dumped me and now he wont talk to me or nothing!! HELP
2006-11-03 11:21:33 · 12 answers · asked by kortnie_cowgirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Young people haven't yet sorted out in their minds who and what they like, and who and what they don't like. So they experiment whenever the opportunity arises, and examine the results. This helps them to mature, and to determine what they like, and what they don't like.
It's very difficult for everyone to like everyone else.
An additional thing is that as we mature, our preferences change. What we used to like, we no longer like, and what we used to dislike, we might grow to like.
So yes, for a variety of reasons, its possible for a guy to stop liking you.
2006-11-03 11:45:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Relationships never stay the same...all relationships are constantly changing. The question is, are two people getting closer, or are they drifting apart? For a relationship to grow stronger, it requires time together. How else can two people discover common ground and bond with shared experiences? If you say you can't read this boy, maybe it's because you haven't understood the signals. You swear he is flirting, and at the same time you say you think he doesn't like you,...a contradiction. He may like you,. but like leads to friendship, not a passionate love affair or marriage. What's wrong with friendship? That's a pretty great relationship, and usually is the phase where you find out if the two of you are compatible and have chemistry. Find out if either of you feels like having a more exclusive relationship. Your problems are in your head. Quit confusing yourself. Make friends, if you can. And enjoy it.
2016-05-21 21:52:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is possible. Maybe that guy wasn't sure if he really like you or not and he wanted to be sure so he asked you out. The reason he's not talking to you is probably because he's too embarrassed or sorry. Or maybe it was a dare.... I'm sorry! I'm not sure if this answer helps you or not. I just want to help the best I can.
2006-11-03 11:31:55 · answer #3 · answered by xiah_hansol 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds crazy but yes! They can even change their mind that quick if they are in love! At least that's what my x-fiancee said. Of course theirs always some other factor helping them to make this decision. They might of found someone else or have someone else in mind. It could be a whole other reason then that, but the fact still remains he did change his mind. I know it sucks I'm sorry...
2006-11-03 11:31:36 · answer #4 · answered by MedicineWoman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes males can be cruel creatures. they have no feelings of the heart when they are young, when they are older, thank goodness they get a bit better. he is only one guy in the world, you have plenty more waiting for you and will treat you just the way you want to be treated. forget him and dont waste your time on trying to make him jealous and want you back, move on and you will find someone better
2006-11-03 11:29:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
women do this to guys all the time...
could be for a number of reasons:
- he's not confident enough to move forward
- he's heard some rumor about you
- he's interested in somebody else
- you made a move that made him uncomfortable
- maybe you read into his actions more than really was there
2006-11-03 11:27:48 · answer #6 · answered by unkerpaulie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he saw someting in you he didn't like. Maybe someone told him things about you. Or maybe there's another girl he'd rather be with. Don't sweat it though. There are so many other guys out there. You're obviously very young...don't rush into things.
2006-11-03 11:24:55 · answer #7 · answered by imasooite 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes. Because you are both still children . Spend more time studying and less time dancing. And drink your millk and eat you green beans, brush your teeth and get lots of rest.
2006-11-03 11:25:52 · answer #8 · answered by Foss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude.. i'm not sure what happen...
are u guy actually goin out or is it just the he know and i know thing??
if u wanna know,, i suggest that u ask hime face to face...rather then taking answer from other ppl who doesn;t know what is goin on.
i think u deserve to know that really answer to the problem..
2006-11-03 11:32:13 · answer #9 · answered by suki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh yea one day a guy can like you and the next day he could just like totally dis you it happened to me alot of times
2006-11-03 11:24:43 · answer #10 · answered by hi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋