got access to this guy been messaging him told him not to reply, don't know if he listend or got messges don't even know if he wants to reply, but the questions is at what time do you stop? if ever. i think my behaviour could put me in a classic stalker list or at least permanently obssessed, but then again thats his fault and he should expect that.
2006-11-03 11:05:12 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
You generally shouldn't contact someone you don't know, for no reason at all. If you had a reason then stop as soon as the reason no longer applies.
2006-11-05 10:13:42 · answer #1 · answered by Shanna J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you told him not to reply, sounds to me that he's following orders and you've absolutely given him a reason to listen to you if you're continually trying to talk to him after that.
The point you tell him not the reply is the point you stop - and it sounds like you're well beyond that already.
If that isn't what you meant to type, you should still let it go. If he's not replying to you of his own free will, he's giving you a message and you should respect that just like you'd want someone else to respect you if you didn't want to talk to them.
As far as it being his fault, it's as much his fault as a woman who gets raped for wearing a short skirt. In case it doesn't hit you here - that means he's not at fault at all. You are the one instigating and taking things too far - not him. That said, move on, leave him alone, and quit blaming him for your issues.
Good luck!
2006-11-03 19:25:23 · answer #2 · answered by Madame Gato 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go unless you want a reputation as a bunny boiler. If he was that keen, he be in touch whether you asked him to or not. It's NOT his fault, it's yours. Take responsibility for your own behaviour and move on.
2006-11-03 19:11:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want someone who doesn't want you? If you're calling YOURSELF a stalker, you should see a counselor and find out why your're so obsessed! This really could get serious (as in legally) for you!
2006-11-03 19:20:43 · answer #4 · answered by Gwynneth Of Olwen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't know him...For God sake leave him alone.
You have already admitted you don't know anything about him. Just because you got info on him...doesn't mean you have to use it to contact him.
You know your being unreasonable...Hang on to what dignity you have left and walk away.
2006-11-03 19:20:53 · answer #5 · answered by cait_68 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you told him not to reply he did what you asked him to do so why wonder you do not contact him again ,finished,unless you want to go to jail
2006-11-03 19:32:59 · answer #6 · answered by Aonarach 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummmmmm hehehe dont worry about it unless you wanna talk to him, it seems my communications have failed as well, but i wouldnt know, is it b.o. or what, seems we are playing hide and seek.(me and the world moved on)
2006-11-03 19:28:42 · answer #7 · answered by l8ntpianist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seek counseling because YOU told him not to reply
I really don't understand your question
2006-11-04 02:28:25 · answer #8 · answered by itsme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now!
He'll reply if he wants to.
Probably doesn't though.
2006-11-03 19:08:31 · answer #9 · answered by auntysarap 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
were you in the film single white female?? lol
2006-11-03 19:17:07 · answer #10 · answered by abbie b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋