If you were me, How would you respond to my Girlfriend's e-mail? Please help!?

Question

Sexy Bill,

What a wonderful Wednesday it was, I just wanted to write you and thank you again since I was unable to write much yesterday morning due to the workload at hand. It was positively wondrous to be close to you, and to make love, which is out of this world.

I have to tell you, I am so impressed with your spirit in willingness to honor my request for more space that I feel closer to you than ever. You displayed an unprecedented level of understanding and wisdom, I am beside myself with admiration and respect for you. You never fail to show me the light when I have doubts. I only hope that I treat you as well as you deserve to be treated, because you are worthy of only the best and nothing less.

Looking at the whole, the only thing that I've had trouble with is how much you give, which is almost to an extreme, since you have such a generous heart. I can't help but to feel bad because I'm not in a position to give as much in return. At the same time I understand that is how you demonstrate your feelings, and I respect that.

I want to apologize that, I realize I've pretty much made it all about sex. That is shallow of me. I suppose I tried to justify it in my own mind by thinking that, as a man, maybe that is all you would care about too. But I am really a jerk for thinking alongs those lines-- you are a human being with feelings, not just a hot body and handsome face.

The more I find you reaching out to me with personal things such as sharing pictures with me, and showing/giving me things from your childhood, sends a message. Today I was puzzling over this outpouring, not knowing really what to do. My initial reaction unfortunately is to try to avoid getting too personal. But I started to think about how what a person shares is also what a person needs-- and maybe that I was treating you like an object. Like a sweet-hearted protest, you are showing me that you are more than just a toy. Like that toy doll in my dream that suddenly spoke, I've suddenly come to realize what's going on. I can see that you really want and need a special connection, and it's sad that I tend to do the exact opposite and vigilantly avoid everything that is romantic, sentimental, and personal. I don't know how to change this, but I think by ignoring your attempts to make a connection I am only making matters worse.

At least by acknowledging your needs I hope that you can see the level that I care about you. I am making my own attempt to figure out how to treat you right. I just wanted you to know that.

Have a joyful and happy Friday, looking forward to talking to you sometime this weekend.

Hayley

Answer 1

get rid of her. she talks too much.

Answer 2

Sweet Hayley,

Thank you for open up with me.

Don't mess your pretty head with worries of not giving me the best thing, I'm not that perfect...

As far as I know you are the best thing ever happend to me. Take your time and space untill you figure out what is the best for you.

Because i want you to be happy and contented, i'm waiting for your decision, its all yours to make.

Have a joyfull happy friday too, looking forward to hold you in my arms again.


Bill


===> hope it's help, well don't afraid to show your feeling, and love to the fullest. time may past by, things may changed, but memories of loving day will never ceased away.
Good luck!

Answer 3

It kinda sounds like she feels you are smothering her. Maybe you can find another person who enjoys the ways you show your affection? If there is limited or no emotional connection, then all you are are sexual partners. This can be fine, but it seems like you want more than this. And, she doesn't seem to be interested.

Answer 4

it seems she cares about you but just doesnt know how to tell her. im not sure how to respond tell her how u feel cuz this seems to be a letter where she opens her heart

Answer 5

Tell her it was your pleasure and nice stuff