When you were in high school and you were taken out on a date, what would you expect. I want to take this girl I really like out to dinner. Would should I behave like. Should I be polite and extra courteous? Should I tease her in a fun way(girls seem to like this)? Should I make jokes and be rough? Or shold I act like a gentleman? A cool gangsta gentleman or a 007 type or like a scholarly guy with etiquette? What would you guys like in high school? Or should I just be myslef?
2006-11-03 10:52:19 · 22 answers · asked by thayellowmonkey 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
God you sound so cute! Well, i know how it feels to want to impress some one, But be yourself! If she does not like that then you pretending to me some 007 guy your whole time dating her! . . First date DO NOT go to some fancy dancy restraunt. . . go have fun an adventure! Girls seem to love that!!!!!! Be yourself have a great time tease her in that flirting type of way... make a date up all of your own... make sure you like her and she clicks with you before you go to some fancy dancy date! k need more help..
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2006-11-03 10:57:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
As lame as is sounds, try to be yourself. If you start out as you it will be more comfortable in the long run.
Don't treat her like she's one of your buddies. Because she's not.
Girls love to see that chivalry isn't dead. Opening doors, paying for the meal, overall politeness always is good, but don't take it to the extreme where she doesn't feel comfortable. You can make jokes but DO NOT joke about her appearance. If you say anything about the way she looks it must be a compliment. Also, if you are looking for a lasting relationship with this girl don't kiss her on the lips at the end of the night. A kiss on the cheek is as much as you should do on a first date, unless she is looking for more.
2006-11-03 10:57:33 · answer #2 · answered by save_thetrees 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself, if she already agreed to go out with you then obviously she likes you as well. Still be a gentleman, but don't be too much of a gentleman. Just be sweet and charming but as well as being yourself. Good Luck but I am sure things will work out
2006-11-03 11:04:16 · answer #3 · answered by Amie D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely be yourself - always! Be polite and treat her with respect for sure. Compliment her on her appearance as soon as you see her - Girls LOVE that! Share some funny stories with her. Teasing in a fun way is always good, you're right, we LOVE that ;~) Walk her to her door at the end of the date.
2006-11-03 10:58:34 · answer #4 · answered by ihavethat45 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do be yourself. Don't put on a front. Do have very good manners at dinner. Do ask her lot's of questions about herself. Don't talk about yourself too much-but do talk about yourself a little. Do get to know more about her. Do act confident. Don't be a jerk or act like you are better than her.
2006-11-03 10:55:51 · answer #5 · answered by Maggie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely be yourself, but if yourself happens to be funny and slightly teasing, girls usually like that and it takes some of the pressure off for both people.
2006-11-03 10:59:19 · answer #6 · answered by Serene Queen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself but also have a nice side. don't act like a jerk or try to look cool. because if you try to hard you'll look like an idiot. also if you're taking her out and you want to pay seperately make sure to tell her before.
be funny and nice if you make her laugh she'll loosen up a little if she's nervous. and one more thing don't push anything on her especially if it is the first date unless she wants to.
hope this helps.
2006-11-03 10:57:18 · answer #7 · answered by Coke-n-Snickers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-27 01:50:27 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be polite and courteous and be yourself. Girls can usually tell if you're trying to be someone you're not. Also, a girl wants to feel special, but don't smother her either.
2006-11-03 10:56:32 · answer #9 · answered by Guppie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself. Be pleasant and polite and treat her like a lady. Just be a gentleman
2006-11-03 10:55:12 · answer #10 · answered by cshell442003 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋