How do i approach this girl?

Question

Iv noticed this girl in my class. I have never seen her in school, and i dont even know her name. I think she is cute, and would like to get to know her. How would i approach her without being "scarry" or "awkward"? she is 18-19 i am 18. THX and again, i never talked to her before. THX again

Answer 1

The only way to avoid being "scary" or giving her the creeps is to avoid pickup lines or trying to hide your agenda. If you are talking to her she going to assume it's because you are interested in her. Be confident and ask her to do something specific like having coffee at three. Don't ask if she has a boyfriend or if you can take her out sometime because it makes you look weak and insecure. If you can make her laugh without trying too hard you are golden.

Answer 2

You don't just walk up to a girl you don't know and ask her out. So forget about that advice. She'll think you're either shallow or retarded. So how about a smile and "hello" for starters? If she is in your class, you obviously see her quite frequently. That's a lot of smiles. So switch it up. Start with "hello" then try a "how's it going?" and work your way up to a conversation about the class. There is something you have in common right away. And you've broken the ice. And once you have, you can ask her casually if she'd like to get together for lunch or something. Worse case scenerio, you can always talk to her about the class you have together, your school, etc. Ask her some questions to show you are interested in more than just her cuteness...like what is her favorite class? What are her interests? Etc. So if you are sitting there having lunch with her, how easy would it be to finally ask her out?? Hope this helps!!

Answer 3

okay a few ideas. approach her about something class related, tell her you didn't get something, or does she have notes from a day you missed. parlay that into a conversation.

OR

you could just introduce yourself. Hi I haven't seen you around before, are you a transfer?

OR

You could always go with the "Hi I never saw you before but you're beautiful. If you're half as beautiful inside as you are on the surface I think I could fall for you."

OR any variation of these. the slow and friendly approach. the deceptive but flirty, or the full court press. maybe if you observe her a bit more, you'll figure out which one would be best.

Answer 4

I think you need to start by at least letting her know who you are. Some how try to help her in class or catch eye to eye with her so you can say hi. I you can do something like that you will be able to feel if there is even a spark. Kid around with her see if she is the kid of personality you are interested in. Then ask her out you are both adults it will come easy to you when it is time.

Answer 5

Just go up to her and introduce herself. Talk for a bit, and if you two "click", then try to go in for a date. Simply ask her if she would like to go to the movies or out for dinner if you do ever ask her out, and that probably shouldn't be hard for you, because you are 18, should drive, and you might have a job. Good Luck. :+) Happy Hunting.

Answer 6

Just introduce yourself to her in a friendly matter. "Hey I don't think we've met before, I'm Bob." It couldn't hurt to find out about something she likes so you have something to talk to her about. Be sure to smile and be friendly. If you and a bunch of people are going out somewhere some time invite her along. Girls don't feel as vulnerable in big groups.

Answer 7

Just walk up to her and use one of these lines.

Is it hot in here or is it just you?
I got my library card so is it okay if i check you out?
If I could rearrange the alphabet, I would put u & i together.
Wanna make some sliding friction? Which will slowly turn into Fluid Friction.

Answer 8

if she's in your classes "accidentally" bump into her and be like o sorry. and smile. there's a start. then "accidentally" drop your pencil near her and smile when either you or she picks it up. after a test or something "accidentally" run into her after class and ask her how she felt the test was. by that time you should know her name. and then start talking to her and become friends. turn on your charm and get her to like you and when you know she does ask her out.

hope that helps

Answer 9

just go up to her and say hi my names ( enter our name here) whats yours ( enter her name) so are you new in school? if she says yes tell her you'll be her Friend but big warning don't ignore her if she says yes to hang out with you never ignore her that will make her feel unimportant don't do that to her then after a while ask her out

Answer 10

Say "Hi" or "How are you?" to the girl. Then introduce yourself and ask her name. Ask her if she need any help.