2006-11-03 10:17:37 · 12 answers · asked by elliebull dog 18 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Under the right circumstance, the age part would be okay. But since you are asking, it sounds like you are not sure, and that is definitely not a time to get married! At 18 and 20, probably neither of you are able to support a household. If a baby came along, how would you manage?
If you love each other, respect each other enough to do this right. Both of you should get an education first, or at least be well on your way in a career that has a future. You will know in your heart when the time is right.
2006-11-03 10:46:52 · answer #1 · answered by Jane 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you know that most people who marry at a young age get divorced? Well it's true. My parents married at a young age and are still together so it can work but I wouldn't risk it. Divorce is horrible. You should wait a while and keep dating and see how you two feel after being together for longer. There are so many people out there, and you don't want to marry someone and realize that you love someone else. Just give it some time.
2006-11-03 10:21:59 · answer #2 · answered by Some Girl from College 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-21 05:27:22 · answer #3 · answered by carrera 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you both really love each other, you will still love eachother in 4 to 5 years. You are still becoming an adult, why rush? On the other hand life can be so short and uncertain... Whenever you are sure of what to do (after praying to God about it) go for it.. Enjoy life while you can.
2006-11-03 10:32:26 · answer #4 · answered by Honey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are very young, and so is he. And honestly a 2year age difference isnt a problem. But what is a problem is people change, you need to know someone for a very long time before you make the marriage decision. I would give it a few years honestly. You have to ask yourself alot of questions and have good answers for those questions before you even think of getting married.
2006-11-03 10:29:16 · answer #5 · answered by sgtyetzer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the problem is with the age...i don't see it...two years difference, no biggie...and with that...if you two love eachother, treat eachother right, are happy, trust eachother, have your daily arguments which is healthy, have space amoung eachother, have commitment and listen to eachother I dont see anything wrong with gettn married. its about all those words i just mentioned if you do not have those then its not you two...its not going to be a future. you have to have a healthy relationship. if you do. then go for it babe, be happy and show him off to all the women who need a man like that. i hope everyhting works out between you two.
2006-11-03 10:22:08 · answer #6 · answered by old 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
O.K you're in love but you should still wait a little longer you both are still to young.
You have your whole life in front of you, and since you both are in love whats the rush.
2006-11-03 10:25:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no rush. Go to college, learn about yourself and the world and start talking about marriage when you're 24. And don't have kids in the meantime!
2006-11-03 10:21:55 · answer #8 · answered by chnchita 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait 5 more years. what's the rush? you guys are soooooo SOOO young.
This is one of the most important decisions of your life. If you are asking about this, then you aren't ready and I think you know that deep down.
Don't make a decision you aren't sure about or you may regret it later (even though you do love him).
2006-11-03 10:19:07 · answer #9 · answered by ftz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long have u known him? can u trust him? would u trust him to b faithful if he were in a hotel room w/your best friend? Have u ever doubted him? has he ever done anthing to hurt you?
2006-11-03 10:22:59 · answer #10 · answered by Traveler 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋