What makes women and men hate "sluts" ?

Question

To me "****" is a left over term from the days of no condoms, and people should move on. When a guy has sex with many women he is a hero among men, what makes it different for women? Deep inside most women want to be as open as the women they make fun off but they can only explore in their mind because the social riddicule that they themself create will be so harsh

Both men and women want to find that one true love, and eventually, after we had our fun we stop being sluts, and to me a woman who has sex with lots of guys is no different from anyone else, i think women who hate "sluts" are just projecting their own inner thoughts, and guys who hate them probably wish they could but have their own insecuries or are just following the opinion of their female friends... not true? I just cant see why any normal man would hate sluts, perhaps you prefer someone who is more conservative, but hating women just because of how they live out their sexuality is wrong, what do you think?

Answer 1

Great question.
I have pondered this question many times as a woman. Its a double standard. Women it seems do not have sexual freedom among many other freedoms.
I happen to love sex and sometimes this standard bothers me. Who is someone else to judge me? Its none of their buisness what I do in the bedroom as far as they are concerned.
The way I deal with it is that I am an Adult and I do what I want to do. They dont pay my bills? sex makes me feel go and I feel that I deserve the pleasure that is my human right, what God gave me and deserve the same respect as men.
Of course there is need for protection in this day and age.
I usually keep my sexual life private and dont talk to anyone about it- thats what society has done to me. Women hate sluts I guess because they have it ingrained in their head from society that sleeping around is wrong. I dont sleep around, I am respectful to myself...but if I find myself in the heat of passion and it feels right I will do it because it feels good.
Men..humm I dont know why they judge if they were raised to believe that sex is okay and good. They even get praised for it.
I think women should do what they want and not care about someone else's opinion.

Answer 2

Its not men or woman whomever so have the sex like an extracurricular activity or the other person other than those to whom they must be married and should have the sex will not be good to there marital life and also they must have to be safe while they marry and live. A Man is not a hero and a woman is not a negative role both are the negative in the pre martial sex.

Answer 3

Is it possible that it is, in part at least, a consequence of the fact that men still seek exclusive, proprietary rights in their partners. They can't have this if the woman digs on variety and likes to and chooses not to be possessed. Some guys rise about this possessory attitude and allow their partner to experience other guys, but this is not usual.

A woman can never have that kind of exclusivity in her partner, though not a few imagine that they are. Secret polls tell us that nearly every husband wanders of the reservation more than once. It is encouraging to me the find these same polls indicating that wives are now more and more inclined to do the same thing at some time in the course of the marriage.

Of course, now promiscuity is compromised in some degree by the fact that one mistake can cost one his or her life.

Me? Give me the soft, easy girl who lives for and enjoys the moment by complete and sincere surrender to Ecstasy. I don't think that many people on their death bed celebrate the chance for love that they missed for fear of what "they will say."

There will always be this truth: when one introduces some one, "This is my mother," you are talking fact. But when you say, "I'd like you to meet my father." you're working off a theory.

Answer 4

Some just enjoy the taste and making the girl moan knowing that it's them making her feel so much pleasure. That makes some guys hard and some guys just like the way girls react and what it's like. But that's pretty much when they really like a person. Some guys only do it so he can expect her to go down on him too.

Answer 5

a "****" offers something to some men what their girlfriend won't lack of inhibitions...women can use that term for hatred of woman but not everyone who calls another woman a **** is insecure or a conservative...I've used the word myself...but i don't have inhibitions...sleeping around is dangerous and loosely it's regarded as such the ideals have been held that way for years to me men who do the same are exactly the same... sluts and only other men see them as cool women who know men sleep around or constantly use the other head to think are not attractive either....you don't have to be raunchy to have fun,...you can be uninhibited and still be clean.

Answer 6

The pure love is blind, but the sex has many eyes. The persons, who have sex before marriage or with many, are infect not liked by good persons.

Answer 7

I think that "hate" needs to abolished. I think that if we all took the time to find love and kindness, instead of flaws and problems, that this world would be better off.

Answer 8

women hate sluts cuz it is known that if you befriend a **** you get labled one. Sex with one guy is one thing but not with 3/4 of the town. Girls also don't like guys who sleep around "alot"!

Answer 9

i think that promiscuous women are looked at in a worse light than men of equal promiscuity because of what sex entails for each sex.
when a woman has consensual sex she is allowing a mad to enter her body. allowing herself to be penetrated. Men on the other hand , since they are the ones doing the penetrating don't have to let anyone "invade" their bodies.
it is sad that we are back to the times where if a woman has sex with more than one man she is considered a *****, but it is a double standard that isn't going anywhere.

Answer 10

Sluts are people we sleep with who sleep with someone else before we do..... We don;t like them because it dimishes the "special-ness" we feel when we find a sex partner...and we feel dissed that that person moves to another before we do.