whenever a guy kisses or cuddles with me or touches my side or holds my hand or something..i get extremely naseous and want to distance myself immediately.
i've never been raped or abused at all, dont have any bad memmories or anything i know of.
so why am i like this?
2006-11-03 10:07:17 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
I was like that for my teenage years!!! Even if I had a crush on a guy, as soon as he showed interest, I felt like I was going to barf, and completely avoided him! Ahhh, the good old days.
Don't worry, it's just nerves. Once you get to know the guy, it goes away. In the mean time, if he really likes you, he'll chase you, and not give up just b/c you give him mixed signals. :)
When I reached my 20's the nerves went away. Not sure how old you are, but in a few years I'm sure you won't get that sick feeling any more.
Good luck girlie!
2006-11-03 10:13:59 · answer #1 · answered by carmenPI 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I was the same way. Still am in a way. I am married with 2 boys. I just had to wait for the right guy. When another man hugs me I stll cringe. I have a tendency of with drawing into myself. Just try to relax a little if you can You'll be okay. If you feel like you need to talk to someone talk to your Dr. He/she will help you find someone to talk to or help you understand what is going on. Remember you are not the only one who has been through this. Take care & good luck, Becky
2006-11-03 22:16:39 · answer #2 · answered by Becky H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would infer that you are a minor, or if not somebody with little experience love-wise. Nothing to worry about if this is your case. Anyways, i'm just trying to guess. Have you thought about the possibility of being homsexual? Do you like girls? I repeat, i'm just trying to guess. No offence. Ask yourself those questions...
2006-11-03 18:15:44 · answer #3 · answered by k. Osle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're not ready to be intimate with anyone... or they're not the right guys. You should get a nervous but excited feeling in the bottom of your stomach...not sick. But make sure you aren't rushing yourself.
2006-11-03 18:13:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually throwing up over circumstances is anxiety. You need to explore the reasons you would have so much anxiety.
2006-11-03 18:17:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you are homosexual?
this is not a joke, just a suggestion..it could also be that you have been taught (subconsciously) that men are evil and have been pre-programed to back away..
2006-11-03 18:10:59 · answer #6 · answered by sobrien 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please consult a neurologist. It seems like you are hypersensitive. If a light touch bothers you the most then gradual desensitization can help you. But consult your doctor.
2006-11-03 18:10:32 · answer #7 · answered by baniban2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal if you have never done that before and you are scared of the outcomes of sex
2006-11-03 18:09:48 · answer #8 · answered by â?¥ Pawya! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find a guy that you really like.
2006-11-03 18:08:24 · answer #9 · answered by happyha31 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your gay, try making out with a woman!
2006-11-03 18:08:57 · answer #10 · answered by jmdavis333 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋